I don't know if I like my husband

Thank you very much for your consultation. Even though you feel alone, your self, who continues to have compassion for others and kindness, is the person you should cherish first and foremost.

While your love for your husband becomes invisible and you are suffering, why don't you focus on “protecting yourself and redefining your relationship” rather than “changing your partner.”

First, let go of “asking for something from your husband.” It is precisely because we expect it that we are deeply hurt when we don't get it answered. “He has this kind of personality, and he is a person who is not good at imagining the emotions of others,” he captures only facts and separates his emotions.

As a concrete action, please consciously set aside “time for yourself” physically and mentally. By creating a place for myself that is not influenced by my husband's reactions, such as hobbies or time with friends, etc., I can relax.

Also, try using the energy to improve your marital relationship to take care of yourself. If you are happy and fulfilled, your husband's indifference may also not be as big a problem as before. In order to protect your own heart, first try turning your attention from “making your husband happy” to “what you should do today to make yourself comfortable.” Beyond that, I would be happy if your husband felt a change in your way of dealing with you, and you should be able to affirm your life even if it doesn't change.

Hmmm, that's right. Listening to the story certainly makes me feel lonely.
“I want to share” is important, isn't it? Women feel love and happiness there, don't they?

However, men tend to place emphasis on solving problems rather than empathizing with emotions, so they may feel burdened by simply listening to complaints or having conversations where they share their feelings.

I wonder if I should ask my husband. “What kind of sharing do you think?” I mean. Maybe you think of sharing a respectful relationship where you share solutions together, share the same experiences and time, such as travel, and support each other by sharing roles at home or work.

I would be happy if I could feel warm kindness even in everyday casual relationships. I wonder if the points I want to cherish as a married couple are just a little off.

My husband and I are both free people, so they don't interfere, but when it comes to sharing, it won't be conveyed unless I say it, and my friends and friends understand my feelings and deep realizations better than my husband, and they listen closely.

So rather than asking your husband for everything, why don't you increase your friends and understanding people outside?

We have received your consultation with Mr. Uru.

Even if we go out together, they walk fast and leave it behind
→This is “Wait ~ Wait ~ Wait ~”
Stop your opponent by saying things like that

Smartphones on trains and restaurants
→ After surfing the internet yourself, you can send a line to your partner, say “Hey, look at the line,” have a conversation on the line, and head over here.

Please try it.

But there are men in these.
She's a woman in her 20s, so she's lonely, isn't she? But I don't feel like my husband is offended at all.

Probably, no matter who you marry, I feel like that area won't change at all.

If you lower your expectations for your partner, you won't feel lonely.

It used to be said that married couples are air, etc., but now they want to enjoy married life.

But maybe time will resolve this feeling.

There are no shadows of violence, gambling, or playing with women, and no offense.

Isn't he the best husband?

It would be nice if I could become able to find happiness in my everyday carefree lifestyle.

From the feeling that I like you because “they value me,”

“People I want to cherish”
When you get used to that feeling,

I'm sure your husband's appeal, which only you can understand! You might be able to search for it.

Marriage is more important than love.

A married couple shares a common destiny.

If your husband worked hard until now until now until now, why don't you try Uru-san to make an effort to build a relationship.

And how about observing him as if you were watching him during a time when you weren't able to meet him during a relationship.

As you change your point of view, change your way of thinking, and find something you are obsessed with, you should gradually be able to learn a comfortable sense of distance with your husband.

Love has graduated, and now is the beginning of love.
With that in mind, why don't you create your own future marriage?

When people change their partner's appearance, huh? It's something you notice.

What if Mr. Woo makes him happy, huh? With such a face, my husband may also point his face at Mr. Uru from his cell phone.

Please try out various things.
It's best to have fun!

It's a fight!

I pray for Woll-san's happiness 🙏

I read it.
I read your feelings for your husband. Yes... when couples actually live together, their ideals and reality may be different. I feel like I understand your thoughts. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
Why don't you watch the situation for a moment.
Rather than trying to answer in a hurry, let's live a calm life while observing how your husband is doing. Then why don't you carefully observe your husband's condition, personality, and way of thinking. If you live a hectic lifestyle every day, you may end up neglecting your feelings no matter what.
Then, after observing the situation, why don't you face each other once as a couple, and then carefully and clearly communicate your thoughts and thoughts to your husband.
I think it will also change depending on whether or not they accept your thoughts in the midst of that, and whether or not your husband thinks and responds to your thoughts.
Even couples often have different ideas, opinions, and ways of life. From now on, the two of you will discuss how the couple can respect each other.
Your future and life, and your husband's future and life are very important.
Please both of you face each other sincerely, respect each other, and make your own judgments. We wholeheartedly agree