Self-management

There is a person I met at a marriage hunting party while my gynecology department got caught in the medical examination and was undergoing a re-examination, so why don't you start a relationship after the re-examination results came out thinking about the future? I told them, but they said they didn't care about that, and we started a relationship.
Also, when I immediately told them that fibroids had appeared in the test results, they even made statements leading to personality denial, such as that if they knew, they weren't in a relationship, had no self-control, and were unable to have sex. Aren't people with illnesses eligible for a lifelong relationship?
Even if you fall in love with someone after that, if you live a life where the same things happen over and over again, it's already hard to live.

4 Zen Responses

Get away from that bad relationship once and for all and put your own mind and body recovery first

Thank you very much for your consultation. It was a difficult time both mentally and physically, but you spoke very well. Your opponent's unreasonable return of hands is absolutely unforgivable.

In conclusion, you should break up a relationship with such a man right away. While saying “I don't care” during the re-examination stage, it is outrageous to say “I don't care” and insult them as soon as they know the results. Just because you have fibroids in the first place doesn't mean you won't be able to have sex. In addition to that ignorance, if you reverse the statement “it is impossible to have a woman who cannot have a sexual life,” it is proof that his purpose of dating is simply sexual activity, and he is a lowly person with desires.

“Aren't people with illnesses qualified to have a lifelong relationship?” As for the question, that's definitely not the case. Illness affects everyone equally, and it is not due to self-control. This time it's just that “bad relationships” that you should avoid in your life were quickly revealed. There's absolutely no need to blame yourself.

There is no need to dwell on words that deny his heartless personality. Please stay away from that bad relationship once and for all and put your own mental and physical recovery first.

When you move away from this suffering, cherish yourself, regain your original brightness, and are able to live a vibrant life, a “good relationship” that genuinely cares for you will surely circulate. Please don't worry.

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Engiji Temple Shakujo

Let's get rid of bad relationships

I read it.
Something like that happened, didn't it? That person said such terrible things to you, didn't they? I don't know the details about you or that person, but it really conveys that you were deeply hurt. I understand your painful feelings from the bottom of my heart.

What that person said is a flagrant violation of human rights, and it is a very terrible discriminatory statement. I think it's okay to sue that person for human rights violations you have suffered, and I think it's okay to appeal to the organizer who had a marriage hunting party, take strict precautions against that person, and make them apologize in good faith to you.
Such human rights violations and discriminatory remarks are by no means permissible, and since they are violations of basic human rights, they are illegal acts, and it is a serious misstatement and crime.
Please make a firm appeal, apologize, and make a firm promise that you will never make such statements again. Your relationship with that person is a bad relationship, so don't go out with them at all, so let's cut off your relationship with that person at all.

Please take care of yourself first, and then provide proper treatment and recuperation.

I sincerely pray that you will be treated well and that you will recover from your illness, that you will be blessed with truly wonderful encounters and good relationships from now on, and that you will be able to live a happy life with compassion and respect for your loved ones and each other. And I will support you from the bottom of my heart. We wholeheartedly agree

It's complete ignorance, a violation of human rights, and extremely disrespectful, isn't it?

Even when it comes to uterine fibroids, there are various conditions and symptoms, and why does that mean “not being able to self-manage, unable to have sex”? It's complete ignorance, a violation of human rights, and extremely disrespectful, isn't it?

Although it is a marriage hunting party, physical information is “personal information requiring consideration” that is particularly strict in personal privacy. Let's tell them how they will be treated after making a proper assessment of the other person.
Let's protect our own information so we don't get hurt.

How are you feeling? Will there be regular checkups and treatments from now on?
A lot of women have uterine fibroids, don't they? Me too. That's why men who hurt you with this kind of attitude aren't right for you. Please meet someone who is compassionate.

I just hit someone who had no heart. There will always be a next encounter.

Uterine fibroids, please take care of yourself.
I hear there are a lot of them these days.

Why don't you go out with someone you met at a marriage hunting party after the re-test results come out? There is really sincerity, such as telling it.

However, I want you to say that man, if you knew him, wasn't in a relationship, and that he didn't have self-control after doing a proper investigation.

It also depends on the location and size, and it doesn't make sense for men to say that much.

Those who are understanding and those who are sincere will deal with their bodies properly.

There are definitely a certain number of people like that, so I don't think it's okay if they aren't despised that much.

I hope you have a good encounter 🙏

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