Why do people who are mean make them happier?

　Good evening. Nice to meet you. I read your consultation, and it made me want to say, “If so, wouldn't it be great?”
Because if “mean people get married quickly,” doesn't that mean the number of people who wait decreases, and the “possibility that they can marry someone who isn't mean” increases for those who get married later?
It doesn't mean “even mean people are fine, so I want to get married soon” is it?

... no good.
In the first place, in the current situation, it seems that “not being there now” is leading to pain (compared to those around). If you were told to hear such a thing, you'd be angry too. However, the reason that phrase has been around for so long is probably because you yourself have wishes of “I want to get married” and “I don't want to be alone.”
Therefore, what I recommend is “insensitivity.” The power to shed even if it can be heard. The mother's “appearance is...” is also thru. I think this is a pretty important power in an age of too much information. Don't mess around with only lines that are painful for me until all the time, and keep it open to meeting various people. They clearly recognize that it is someone else's affair, saying, “Well, those kids do their best.”
Maybe you “want to be in a relationship with someone who isn't mean.” If so, my daily mindset is “Be kind to people. However, I think it's about “protecting my own domain.” If you don't have this second half, you'll be taken advantage of by mean people. I will be kind to the extent that I can, but I will clearly express what I don't like. You may take it for granted, but I think this mindset will lead to your happiness.

I read it.
The more mean people around you are married, have children, and live happily ever after. Are you really wondering why people with bad intentions make them happier? I don't know the details about you or the people around you, but I feel like I can really understand your worries. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.

Yes, if you think so, I think the world is unreasonable, and I think it's wrong. I think it's natural for you to think so.

Such a world is wrong; the world is full of mistakes. It is a mistake that people who have done good things become unhappy, and those who have done bad things are happy.

Those who do such mean, bully, harass, or do bad things will soon be rewarded. They suffer due to misdeeds they have committed themselves.

From your point of view, mean people seem to be happy, but they will suffer from their own sins from now on.

You just need to stay calm and watch calmly. And from now on, please keep moving forward with your good thoughts, words, and actions. If you do good deeds, good results will always be brought, you can live an easy life, and you can be happy.

Please don't just get caught up in the immediate future and what you can see.

I sincerely pray to Buddha, God, and your ancestors so that you can be blessed with truly wonderful encounters for the future, keep good thoughts, words, and actions in mind every day, and live a rich, heartfelt happiness with your loved ones. We wholeheartedly agree

And I wholeheartedly support you.

leave it alone. I'm talking about people who get a mount because they get married or become a mother.

What is a pity...
If you think you're happy right now, let them think so. But how unfortunate they are to show off their position and look down on people and laugh. I feel more sorry for families that have these women as wives and mothers. I hope my family will raise them again with the right knowledge.

At first glance, people who show off themselves and seem satisfied have a strong inner sense of anxiety and inferiority that “they are worthless as they are.”

Also, it gives people around them the impression that they are “proud and stick to their noses” and “they get tired of being together.” As a result, people move away from their surroundings, and only superficial relationships can be built.

When compared to others, they are trapped by a sense of superiority or pleasure, and if they are mounted to such an extent that their surroundings cannot be seen, there is no moment for the mind to rest, and it is difficult to feel happiness in the true sense of the word.

Let's maintain our own peace of mind by taking a step back and looking at it in our hearts, saying, “You're a poor person who isn't satisfied.”

It must have been frustrating. But you don't have to go to the wedding of someone you haven't been friends with for a long time. It's a combination of people, and it's not a relationship that can be called friends. Also, I don't really understand your mother's reason for “I want you to go to maintain the appearance of my neighbors.” It's like you were called in because of the eyes and appearance of your neighborhood. That's a rude invitation, isn't it?

From now on, all you have to do is decide what to do according to your own feelings. Weddings and reunions are often bragging and mount battles, so think carefully before participating.

Also, it makes no sense for others to say how to live. It's better to take care of what you cherish.