The plastic surgery was successful but I regret it

It's a pretty painful story

What was Ah-san's plastic surgery
I think it's because they've always been called ugly.
I understand how it feels to want to be pampered.

That's why I had plastic surgery.

I had plastic surgery
My desire to be pampered was questioned until I had plastic surgery

I may have been able to fix my ugly hair with plastic surgery
A heart that wants to be pampered is a presentable heart,
It would be embarrassing if it was pointed out.
Ah-san can't stand there right now

Even after plastic surgery, I wanted to be pampered
I think the problem wasn't the face, it was the heart
It's either standing up to my foolish self or not.

this may be an extreme example
When I was told that it had changed
Actually, I had plastic surgery, but if I regret it
If I could reveal my embarrassing heart
I think Ah-san will be released.

Or just wait for the time to pass.

Up until now, they've been called ugly, but they've been doing their best to overcome it.
I was also so hurt that I had to think about plastic surgery.
First of all, please praise yourself for being great, for your hard work until now.

And what determines your future life is not what people say, but your own actions.

Kindness and compassion for someone will determine Ah-san in the future.
If not only your appearance but your behavior changes, it's not because of plastic surgery, but because of your mindset.

People say it's for people and don't mess around with lies,
When you realize that you're not only doing it for people, but also for yourself, your actions become real.

I hope my future life will be rich for myself up until now.

Eyes are strange, aren't they?
You can't see anything when your eyelids are closed.
I can't see it at all.
No matter what shape your eyelids are, I don't care at all.
I can't even see the shape of my own eyes.
It just looks like it.
And I don't hate what I see.
I always think this and that about what I see later.
Your eyes will tell you.
“Oh, it really is. Eyes, that's right. Yes, it certainly is.
It shows everything, but no matter who looks at anything, no matter where they look, when they see it, they just say they've seen it, and there's absolutely no room for likes and dislikes, or even good or bad.”
Bottom line: You're causing likes and dislikes while watching things.
Please really try it as it is.
Regrets, good and bad, must have left behind.
What you see comes first; what you think starts with AT.

Ah-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Congratulations on entering the university. Please make your student life finally fulfilling from this spring.

“I thought I hadn't changed that much, but when I met my high school classmates, everyone told me they had changed.” ・・

Of course, having double eyelids is probably the reason, but I think the biggest reason is that Ah-sama's expression and mood changed by getting double eyelids.

Honestly, unless we meet face to face every day, people can't remember every detail of their faces very accurately. After all, what left the biggest impression on me was its expression and atmosphere.

Perhaps what is thought to have changed is that the joy and anticipation from being double eyelid led to confidence, and I think there are times when I was able to have a better expression and atmosphere.

However, if they regret it this time, and it seems difficult and painful, their facial expressions and mood will deteriorate, and there is a possibility that they will fall into a vicious cycle, and I am truly concerned about that.

What is important is the heart and the expression and atmosphere in which it is projected.

Even if it is a face that has been reshaped, what is important is still the mind, its expression, and atmosphere.

It might be possible if you're a famous actress, but it's hard to fake her heart, her expression, and atmosphere.

People go out with each other not because of your “face,” but because of the heart and various things that are a manifestation of that heart.

If that state of mind is better, you will be able to connect with better people, and you will be blessed with better relationships.

Anyway, even in Buddhism, a better transformation of the mind is more important than the physical body, etc., which must eventually be thrown away.

I would be grateful if you could use this as an opportunity to work on a better transformation of your mind by learning and practicing Buddhism little by little.

I haven't been able to answer your question, but please refer to the previous questions and answers below.

Question “Regret and guilt for having plastic surgery”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/981

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho