Victims of sexual crimes

Don't think your opponent (perpetrator) is a human, and think that an animal has been bitten even by an insect.
Or, think of your partner as some kind of pathogen or virus.
If you happen to be bitten by an insect or get the flu,
You won't hate bugs or the flu virus forever.
Please think that you just happened to run into bugs and germs, but now it's fine.
The past has passed away and is no longer there.
Now, please live your new self.

I read it. You must have had a very hard time. I sincerely apologize for your painful feelings and the hurt that has been done to your heart.
Reading it left a deep scar on your life, and I'm sure you are still suffering.
First, rest your mind and body as much as possible. And I would like you to heal my wounds even a little bit. I also sincerely pray to the gods and Buddhas that your painful heart will be healed even a little.
I sincerely hope that little by little you will heal your wounds and calm your mind at ease.

Those who made you feel that painful feeling and hurt you, and the people and organizations that saved it are serious crimes. No matter how ignorant you try to make it light, it's bad work. Will the world allow it, and Shinto and Buddha will allow it. This is an act that is never allowed. You will always be rewarded for your misdeeds.
If you seem to be in excellent physical condition, I think it would be better to consult with the local government, legal affairs bureau, labor standards inspection office, local police station, etc. of public institutions once you have been harmed.
I think it will be very difficult for you. So it depends on your state of mind, but I think it's still necessary to clearly communicate your damage.
Also, while consulting, I think it would be okay if you were to introduce a lawyer if necessary.
There is a minimum need for them to be socially punished for the crimes they have committed.
Similarly, you must be charged with that misconduct.
You must firmly repent of the crimes you have committed.
I don't know what kind of judgment they will face socially, but I think they should definitely be judged, served a sentence, and sincerely apologize to you.
You must be in a very difficult situation right now. Please don't give up on your dreams and goals for the rest of your life. I would like to sincerely pray to Shinto and Buddha that your future will open up firmly and brightly, and that you will have fulfilling and happy days with your loved ones.
I'm praying that your dreams will come true. Please take good care of it.

Good evening.
I read your question.

I think it would be difficult to move forward by pretending that it wasn't there.

As for how to respond to the other party, if you search for victims of sexual violence etc. on the internet, information can be collected because specific procedures etc. are listed on the support center site,
I'm more concerned about taking care of my own body.

Time may have stopped while my body is still holding back painful and sad memories.
I want you to take care of your own body first by putting your hands on your chest, putting them on your stomach, and then rubbing and treating them.

When a company or government cannot be relied upon, it is up to oneself to protect oneself.
Even if you don't expect people around you to respond, please stand by yourself, just Hana.
I'm not alone. I don't have much strength, but please let me remember to recover my mind and body.

Hello, Hana.

There was violence at work, wasn't it?
I know it's very painful and I want to forget it quickly, but crying and falling asleep is not only for your honor, but you're also missing out on preventing new crimes by criminals. Fortunately, the company also fled, and it won't do anything for the happiness of other employees in the future.

Together with your boss, please sue both companies that defended their bosses and failed to make an appropriate resolution. If it was last year, it's still fine, and you don't need to come forward. Lawyers do most of the trials, so it's fine. Please ask a lawyer who is familiar with violent cases to file a lawsuit. And from there, you can leave it up to a lawyer.

Unwanted mental suffering will remain traumatizing forever if the cause is not resolved, and it becomes an endless loop and it becomes difficult to escape from there. I know it will be hard, but please don't run away from suffering and fight. You don't have to cry and fall asleep. The bad thing is that boss and company. Regardless of whether you win or lose, if you face suffering the right way and fight, your emotional suffering will go away.

If you're true, you'll win. Shinto and Buddha are always watching. I sincerely support you and pray to the gods and Buddhas. Gassho

Even though I'm in a different position from Hana, I have had such an experience and heartbreak where my existence collapses from my feet.

Even now, I still can't forget it.
My body trembles and tears come out when I have an opportunity to remember it.
In my head, even if I understand that it's over, even if I don't have anything to hold a grudge against, I wonder if it's this hard just because “there was a fact.”

The feeling that boundaries to protect oneself are disappearing, and the feeling that “something” within oneself is dying is understood only by people who have experienced it.

I think I'm having a hard time because of the heartless attitudes and slander of those involved.
There may be times when you can accept the kindness of those around you that you think is good, or rather hurt.
But don't blame yourself for being hurt by them.
That kind of thing is “I don't know anything, but say whatever you want... what the hell do you understand!” That's it. It's natural to be sad, and it's natural to feel upset. You're not bad.

No matter what your surroundings are or how you feel, I want you to do your best to protect your own mind and body. Please take good care of it.

You can't be reborn as your new self all at once.

I'm not even asking you to endure it.
I'm not even saying forgive me.
I'm not even saying to look forward.
I'm not saying don't lose, fight.

However, there is no doubt that your heartbreak will heal little by little.
Also, your dreams will never be defeated by heartbreak.
I just want you to believe in that.

I am grateful that you confided in your heartache.
I was saved by your courage.

May you be healed.

Gassho

That's ridiculous. It's an obvious crime.
Covering up after the fact, fabricating illnesses, and forcing them to retire, etc.
I feel intense and strong resentment that you have been doubly victimized.

I'm asking them to support our general counsel as well.

Telephone consultations are handled free of charge, or we will pay for them.

If you want to go any further than that, it would be a good idea to ask a local lawyer.

I myself am not a private company, but I am a public service organization
I was in charge of legal affairs (litigation cases), internal control, and compliance for many years.
This company did what it was least supposed to do as a company.
Facts should be revealed with facts.
This is because when it becomes clear that the company tried to cover up the criminal case
The company itself will suffer fatal damage to the company.

I have only one feeling,
There's no reason to keep quiet after getting this far.

I'm a monk, but before that, I was a person with hot blood.
Monks do what they can for the world and people before they aim for enlightenment themselves.
How can we encourage the person in front of us before religious dogma
I think it's my top priority.
I think Amida will forgive me for being so uneven and helpless.

Well, first, I went to a psychiatrist or psychosomatic medicine, and about the psychological damage I have suffered from this incident,
Let's keep a medical certificate. It is the basis for damages in civil lawsuits.
Let's build up the facts in detail. It may be extremely difficult for you,
It is necessary in order to apply social sanctions to the other party and never let them do this kind of thing again.
Then, if you submit a damage report to the police, the other party will be arrested or questioned about the situation.
Before that, there may be factual confirmation of this case or settlement negotiations with the perpetrator himself.
Also, check the facts with the company.
If you deny it, consultation with a third party (mass media) etc. may be necessary.
After consulting with us, it would be a good idea to ask your own local lawyer.
Please stay strong and survive in this shaba world.

Unless you go to a place where you can anticipate such acts, such as going to a love hotel, you can't say that there was an agreement. It's fine!