hasunoha

I've been scammed, how can I live a positive life?

My mentor and the person I admired for many years was an impostor.
Together, my mother and I were defrauded and stolen all of our 70 years' worth of savings.

At the time when I wanted to quit the company due to power harassment, it became a story about “let's make a stock management company with 3 people with my mother,” and it became known that the scammer did not give out even 1 yen of money after 3 years of establishment. Since then, the company has been dissolved without permission.

I was told by the police that I had consulted many times that “the scammer is too competent to turn it into a criminal case.”

I also changed lawyers, and I met a teacher who said “it is possible to sue in civil matters,” but the first cost is 2 million, so I'm hesitating.

What I regret so much that I want to die is that most of my mother's money, who decided “I will never cause trouble to my daughter in her old age,” and she saved without enjoying her life, was stolen by me as an idiot.

I've managed to make a living, and I've paid back to my mother, but she said, “If I had that money, my mother would have a richer life. It's always painful to say, “I was able to go over there too, and I was able to buy that too...”

My mother was a strong person and said, “Money led to peace of mind. But what's lost can't be helped. It's also embarrassing to talk to people, so let's just give up.” You won't be blamed.

The amount of life insurance in the unlikely event of an emergency happened to me is now an amount of money that will somehow make my mother's life easier. I want to use the money I used to pay for fun with my mother, but my mother ages faster than reimbursement and it's sad.

You can't spend 2 million on attorney fees. If so, I'd like to use it for my mom. However, if I could pay my lawyer, I would be relieved of my regret.

I was scammed and hesitated about something bad, and said, “Someday, I will cause my grandson to be irretrievably seriously injured, and suffer when I see my son grieving and suffering!” I think so.

I can't forgive the impostor who tricked the baby into twisting her hand while knowing about my mother's hardships. (I don't have a male-female relationship with a scammer)

I was scammed because I was ignorant, stupid, and shallow, and despite putting my heart on my mother, I sometimes find myself unable to be kind to my mother. It's pitiful and makes me want to disappear, but I can't die if I leave my mother behind.

While looking forward, working, and thinking about living happily by traveling with my mother from time to time, I think “I want to sue in civil matters, I can't get back on my feet, and if I'm alone, I want to seriously injure my grandson.”

What should I do about my heart? please.

4 Zen Responses

Flush it. Otherwise, it's about making up your mind and fighting.

Being caught up in advance fraud at online auctions,
I ordered a website last year, and have they made it this far? yeah? cheap!
I transferred the money, and it soon went bankrupt.
Suspicions of planned bankruptcy are extremely strong. But it would be difficult to prove.
“Right now, it's a special campaign. It's less than half price.”
I was deceived by the good words of the person in charge.
Even though it's cheap, it's the homepage of the company that manages it.
I threw away enough money to buy a new car.
If you're in trouble, you'll be slug Anything is possible.
“Why did you deceive me when I could see that the company was going bankrupt?”
“I didn't mean to deceive you.”
“I trusted you.”
“I'm sorry, but I'm just one employee.”

Other than that, there are a lot of things I can't write here.

I want people to do good things and trick monks into good things (laughs)

It was a separate incident around the same time, and I had the feeling of dying in quick succession the year before last,
What I can say clearly is that I'm glad I was deceived rather than deceived.

If you curse a person, there are two holes. Just because you cursed it won't reach your opponent.
Feelings of resentment and hatred
It's not about bothering your opponent,
Aren't you bothering your own mind?

That's unreasonable.
For some reason, why do you feel bad when you're in a bad situation?
Please forget it completely, create a bright future, and walk forward.
I sincerely pray for the happiness of you and your mother.

PostScript
The Buddha is merciful and loving. In terms of cause and effect, since they created the cause of being deceived, the result will always be received either in this life or in the next. Judging is my own business. That's why I told others not to touch it. If you touch it, this will create a new cause. However, the feeling of being absolutely unforgivable isn't convincing with such words, is it?
Fighting is also unavoidable. That's what humans are. That's why we need Amida's mercy. There are times when it is necessary to clear up in this world, but make the most of the wisdom of life,
There is no such thing as a backlash.
Internet disclosure is an illegal act that falls under the constitutive requirements for defamation. It humiliates your personality and puts future developments at a disadvantage. Not breaking the web called the law is a rule in this shabba world.
Don't lose, don't get frustrated, don't get angry, because it's a loss if you feel bad for your opponent any more.

Let's just give up.

Hello, Mr. Chululu. It was a painful experience.
I understand the feeling of not being able to fully regret it, whether you regret it or not. Once you're alone, I understand the feeling that you want to seriously injure your grandson.
But it's irretrievable.
Mom's 'let's just give up' is everything.

The kanji for “fortune” is written as a rice field on the side shown.
It's a blessing to be able to get a day's worth of food today!

I'm glad my life wasn't taken! Let's think so!
If I'm alive, I'll be able to do something about it.
You might not be able to eat delicious food.
Let's devise ways to make it delicious to eat. (I think the rice balls I ate on the excursion were delicious)
A lifetime's worth of misfortune has been used up, and all that's left is to accumulate good fortune! Let's think about it.

First, find out where that person is. Money at any cost, Trimoros.

he's a jerk, isn't he? If your opponent is a scammer, let's go about the scammer's card or two.
If it were me, I would buy a stun gun and keep it hidden in my pocket, find out where that guy is at any cost, let his guard down, tie him up with a rope, take him to a warehouse with no people who seem to appear in the drama, tie him somewhere so he can't escape, shower gasoline from my head saying “If you don't return the money, I'll kill you here” from my head, and light a Zippo lighter... Of course, it's about hitting one play without causing harm. (Just my own story)
“Please stop it...!”
“Bibb ('◉ ◉)... my life is ruined because of you... don't worry, I'll die with you... Please take her to my mother and apologize... Keke (in the style of Cyco Bus)”
I'll start asking where the money they stole while threatening them is. Women's power is no match for men's power, so talk about the situation with a strong man you can trust and ask them to help you by covering him with a Jason mask.
If it were Siitama, I'd wear a Jason mask.
Since the other party is a scammer, they will also lie that “I've already used it.” The whereabouts of the money would also lie.
It was originally your money. If you beat a good person, they won't come back.
Scammers are fraudsters. A criminal, a super scoundrel. What should I refrain from doing?
The police won't get involved very much, so I'm really serious about getting back to the point where the police don't get involved! I think it's better to stir up that feeling and take some kind of action. (The above may not be helpful) A long time ago, I took back a guy who tried to defraud me of money by doing that kind of thing. (How long is it)
The money that was defrauded..., Trimoros. You should come back.
Even if you talk to an attorney, they'll use it in the meantime.
Conclusion: If you get it back, I'll raise 20% of the damage amount, so if you make full use of the internet or your former career/advertising/advertising/diffusion power, I think well-intentioned specialists and intellectuals will appear.
It's about making it brighter and brighter, and making that guy's real name public and weekly magazines take sides by disclosing his real name from his face photo.
Let's make sure that no one will ever be fooled by the same tricks again.
Let's act before he spends his money.
I'll do what I need to do. right away.
Reference material “ON Abnormal Crime Investigator to Do Hinako Final Episode”

It is only when you let go of your grudge that it calms down

The Buddha said.
“It is only when you let go of your grudge that it calms down. This is an eternal truth.”

I think it's better not to get involved with that person again.
Even if you file a civil lawsuit, you don't know if the money will be returned, and even if you get some money back, you don't know what kind of harassment that person will harass you next due to a rebellious grudge.

Please let go of your grudges, calm your mind, and cherish your time with your mother.
And make your own life better, even if you're single.

Also, if you are reminded by a lawyer,
If you can get back 2 million yen or more, you can pay from what you've recovered, and you can add more depending on the amount you've recovered, but if you can't get it back, you can't even pay 1 yen. I've stopped blaming that person. Thank you very much for taking the time to consult with us. Well then, another chance.
But please tell them.

appending
The Bible says “revenge is God's work.”
As I wrote at the beginning in Buddhism, the teaching is to let go of grudges.
However, what is in the Bible is actually the same thing as Buddhism, isn't it?
I think Jesus is also telling us to let go of our grudges.