Not good at kids

　Nice to meet you, Haru-san, and I read the document, but I think that if the mother doesn't like it, the child really doesn't know what to do and becomes uneasy. I'm also raising children myself, and if there is any real emotional irritation, etc., my children feel it. When children are small, they hit them, but if you tell them “no good,” I don't think they'll stop. Children don't talk, so I don't know why, but I think children can get along well with their mother when they start talking. I think it's important to cherish the children that have been born and want them to grow well. Gassho

Accepted

It's the hardest time
It's a problem that many people suffer from when raising children.
I, who has 3 elementary 4 children, is exactly one of them
Nursing care has also arrived, but after all, the cause of suffering starts with asking the other person.

Also, it can be said that wrong child-rearing and nursing care is continuing to seek one-sided requests.

What you can see from here is that it is a service that gives both childcare and nursing care unilaterally

However, in reality, continuing to give unilaterally is impossible in this world.

The forgiving heart that can be obtained through childcare and nursing care is essential for a happy life, and we parents have been taught such inner richness

If you think you have confidence in raising children, it can also be said that it's proof that you're doing something wrong, and it's natural that you don't have confidence ^ ^

All you have to do is drop your gaze on selfish and agree with “Yes!” You don't have to buy it for them.

That's right
Release your strength
I'll drop my gaze
Don't spare this trouble

This is the mystery of childcare

Gassho

Boys are naughty (^^) Raising children is tough, isn't it? I also have a daughter who will soon be 2 years old, and when I was careful to sit down and eat a meal a while ago, tea was spilled on purpose in retaliation (laughs) It's really painful for kids because they don't know how to do it. My wife is also seriously getting her hair pulled. However, children are not the same as adults. It's natural that you can't do it or that you can't understand things. If you think so, you won't be too angry f^_^; you'll probably get angry or discouraged because you treat them in the same way as adults. Also, as is the case with myself, I think that when parents don't have good mental health, they often hit children or become depressed. The questioner should also take a break in moderation. I think worrying about children like this is proof that you are raising children well. There's no right answer to raising children. That's because there are ten children with all kinds of personalities.

Even when I'm struggling on my own, it's hard to come up with new ideas.
If you have any concerns about raising children, please talk to a public health nurse or the like at the government office.
Public health nurses at the government office are a professional group that watches over hundreds of mothers and children every year.
In developing countries, there are people who risk their lives because they don't know that boiling water is less likely to cause diarrhea.
There are people who are saved just by teaching such simple wisdom by people like public health nurses.
When it comes to raising children, there may be parts that make a big difference just by knowing a little bit of wisdom.
Public health nurses must have seen many mothers with similar problems as you.
I'm sure they'll consult with you.
There are times when I feel relieved just by having them listen to me.

By the way, when you don't seem to like your child, it may be when you expect “I want you to do ○○” from your child, and that is betrayed.
Even my child is a stranger. It's natural that it doesn't work the way I want it to.
Why don't you treat natural phenomena as if you were dealing with them?
If you think of them as adults on the same level, it's frustrating just because you can't get through with the conversation.
I feel that many people who don't like children are looking for intelligence on par with adults in their children.
Children are like natural phenomena, like rain, wind, and wild animals.