The meaning of being kind to people

Nice to meet you, Orange.

I learned how small I was when people were kind to me ♩
There was a hit song called.

Aside from that,

If you are kind to people

1.
① If you are kind to others, the side that has been kind will have a little peace of mind.
② People who have peace of mind can be kind to others.
Also, back to ①, the world is slowly moving in a good direction little by little.

2.
I think it would be better for any human being treated kindly rather than being mean.
People who are kind to others are valued and loved by those around them.
Also, you can get various hints for how to live your own life.
Sooner or later, the kindness you've done will come back to you.

3.
None of us humans live alone. They seem to be socially and economically independent, and even if they live alone, they are being helped and supported by many people where they can see and see.
It's at least giving back to that very unrequited favor, or giving (returning the favor received from the older generation, the person in the upper position to the younger generation, to the person in the lower position).

There's nothing wrong with writing it out, so please forgive me around here.

Orange, who always tries to be kind to people, is wonderful.
I bow my head.

There are parts where simply being kind does not necessarily equal true kindness, so it would be great if you could judge that area from your own experiences.

I think society will be even better if there are as many people like you as possible.
By all means, I would be happy if you continue to do so.

Gassho (^ people ^)

Good evening. My name is Kameyama Junshi.
I wonder what true “kindness” is.
There is a saying, “small kindness, big care.” Even though I treated my partner kindly, there were no words of thanks from them; on the contrary, they said, “Stop being so loud.” How would you feel if you were told that? “What a disrespectful person to not even say thank you.” or, “I did it because I genuinely thought about the other person, but there's probably no way to say that.” Don't you think that?
This kind of “I want words of thanks” or “I don't want to be told that I'm very indebted to you” is a sign of expecting something in return. I don't think there is true kindness in expecting something in return.
I think true kindness is an act done where you don't expect anything in return for yourself. If so, I think it's very difficult for us to be truly kind. If we think so, we may know how narrow our heart is through the act of trying to be kind to others.
These are my answers. I would be happy to help you even a little bit.

Additional note: My answer is not a direct answer to the question, but I wrote it as an aid to reconsider the practice of kindness.

I read it. As Ryotakashi said, if little by little we return the kindness we have received to the people around us, it will eventually spread to all people, and everyone should be able to live surrounded by each other's kindness.
What a wonderful world it would be if it really became that kind of world. It may be quite difficult, but I don't think it's impossible.
I really hope that we will all respect each other, care for each other, and become a world wrapped in mutual kindness.
And I want to start putting it into practice from what I can.
Let's do our best every day so that little by little you and I can give the kindness we have received to the people around us.
I sincerely pray to the Buddha that your future life will be filled with kindness along with all of you.

This is because you can live a happier life that way. Be the same as yourself and others, “How do you treat others?” is “How do I treat myself?” what is it.

It is humans who perform Buddha's mercy, but Buddha's mercy and Buddha's kindness
It is not about being kind with “human ego, ego, principles, or obligations.”
It's not kindness done on the basis of human consciousness.
Even if it's an enemy for someone, I'll help them if they bleed and were seriously injured. I feel like I want to help them.
That is the kindness of being able to help anyone by jumping over human principles and ideas.
If you forget yourself and your ego-like sense of self has been destroyed, you can naturally be kind to anyone.
That is kindness without borders, mercy without borders.
It is man's natural mercy.
Humans have that kind of mentality.
At the same time, the kindness called human ego also coexists within the same person, and appears occasionally. It's only when you acknowledge yourself.
You're probably unaware that being kind to people is somehow painful, but it's probably because you “have to be kind” on top of your ego, small ego, or ego (acknowledge yourself and have something of your own style).
Volunteers also don't have the responsibility of having to do their part. I'm going to destroy myself.
Pacifism is also contrary to peace if you fight for peace and kill your opponent.
Naturalism is also unnatural the more natural it is to try to be natural.
There is a feeling of emptiness no matter how much you try to do it artificially, asking for mercy, kindness, guts, and rewards.
I'm also responding here, but it's not obligatory or anything.
If you dig a water hole in a dry place, that will make someone's throat feel satisfied. That's all.
No matter what purpose a work for children is made for, there are times when children are happy as a result.
However, if you bluntly say copyright like Disney, there are times when no matter how good the story is, it will cool down.
Just keep quiet and do what you should do.
[At first, they didn't like Karakutange's answers, and they complained about it as a thank you
It's also a secret meridian secret hole that destroys the ego and self for 3 years ❤]