First, let's talk about sectarian (Otani school) views as a basic course.
http://www.higashihonganji.or.jp/sermon/leaflet/
“With the Deceased as a Relationship,” “Encounter the Sutras,” and “What is a memorial service for Shinshu?” on page ↑ Please read.
Now, if the act of getting closer to attaining Buddhism is good, what is a memorial service in the Jodo Shinshu
It is not a “place where I turn (turn) to the deceased after following my good act called a memorial service,” but it is a “place where I am turned to the law (teaching/prayer) from the Buddha in connection with the deceased.”
So it's not a “place to chase good fortune,” but a “place to listen to the law.”
If sutras have good power, you can put sutras on the Buddhist altar; if the sound of sutras has good power, you can play a CD; the fact that monks have good power is a lie of authority.
So, Kiyoka says she knows that, what's important is “then what happened to the deceased?” That's right.
In the Jodo Shinshu sect, they say that since death is immediate attainment of Buddha, the salvation of Amitabha Buddha is discarded, everyone attains Buddhism. But then who doesn't use nembutsu? Who doesn't have faith? It raises a lot of questions, doesn't it?
To be clear, I don't know what happened to the deceased himself (Jajan!)
because I'm not dead. The Buddha did not clearly explain what happened after death. Even if I preach it, I can't believe it because I'm not dead.
But even if you don't know “what actually happened to the deceased themselves,” you can understand “the deceased works as a Buddha for those of us left behind,” right?
Buddha is a function that awakens people to the truth and awakens them to the truth.
The deceased had a big job called the end of their lives
“Everything is impermanent”: Nothing lasts forever!
“All laws are selfless”: Since there is no substance, even after death, it still “works” and is with me!
“Fortune”: All “things and things” are connected and influenced, and among them, the deceased ended their role in this world! Everything depends on relationships, so “individual lives” don't turn out the way you want them to!
It tells me the truth, right? Therefore, in order to respond to the wishes of the deceased and the work of the Buddha, it is important that we listen to their teachings “now” regardless of presence or absence after death.
It is not a memorial service, but a Buddhist ceremony as a place to listen to the Dharma.
Then, when she abandons “my thoughts (my thoughts)” and surrenders herself to teaching, the pure land of “Kukai Itsukoku,” where both the deceased and I were all wrapped up, envelops Kiyoka-san. It surpasses the “mystery of life and death”!