Relationships are bothersome and painful

Hello, I'm a monk of the Jodo sect in Hokkaido.
I'm also in the same generation as Miyake, thank you for your support!

It seems like a lot has accumulated, and I would like them to think together so that we can somehow relax our minds. In order to like relationships with people, I think the first step is to accept them.

Just recently, I've seen words like “the richness of life depends on the amount of encounters” on the internet, and I think that's true. Miyake will also meet various people in her future life, learn about various intellects and values, and develop what she is.
It seems that they feel pain about “meeting and getting involved with people,” but on the contrary, “meeting and getting involved with people”
This will lead to your own growth, and it should also open up your horizons.

People seem to be living alone, but this is not the case; they are kept alive by various invisible “thanks”. Thanks to you, for example, we have eyes, and those eyes seem to see the scenery, but in reality, without light, we can't see anything. In other words, the eyes are not watching; the light is letting us see. Being thankful for something that you don't notice easily but are thankful for is called “thanks.”

It seems that Miyake has felt stressed about her parents until now, but isn't that situation somehow affected by the current stressful environment?
You may have lived with a lot of backlash, but why don't you start again with a feeling of gratitude and greetings and a little conversation with your closest thankful parents who raised you until you became a member of society? Or even someone close to you who you think is easy to talk to ♪

It may take a lot of courage to take that step of speaking for yourself, but if you want to improve the current situation, be sure to do it!!
Say hello and express your gratitude. It's the most important way to improve relationships, start slowly at your own pace with these things, it's a long life, don't be impatient!

We only live once, let's live a bright and enjoyable life anyway ♪

Tsutsui Shojun

Thank you for your hard work. Miyake Shuko
Let me state my thoughts

Relationships are intrusive
It can't be avoided
Is it something you think is unavoidable or unavoidable in a sense

Please meet all kinds of people
I learned more and more that there are many different people among them
Maybe it's going to be fun somewhere
Please be sure to put it into practice because you think you will be deceived

Gassho

Nice to meet you, Miyake Shuko.
This is Nakamura Taishaku from Tokushima Prefecture, the temple of Dharma and ceiling paintings.

Miyake Shuko wasn't good at getting involved with people, so she didn't get along well with her family. Being a member of society and enjoying a sense of openness while living alone is fleeting, and I want to run away because socializing with people at work is a hassle.

People don't turn out the way Miyake Shuko thinks. That is why it is bothersome and troublesome. It's stressful because I want to do something and do what I want.

Kobo Daishi Kukai said, “Minds change depending on the environment. If you clear your mind, your environment will also be clean.”
If you think you don't like it, the environment will deteriorate accordingly. Conversely, when people try to be in a relationship as something they don't think, the other person starts to think like a mirror.

What is happening around Miyake Shuko is a mirror of herself.

Humans “everyone is the protagonist.”
Up to this point, even elementary school students know it.
However, “everyone is the protagonist.”
Eh, isn't it the same? (°°)!
That's different.
“Everyone is the protagonist”
If you misunderstand this by 1 centimeter, only you within everyone will be “in a state where you are too protagonist.”
Since everyone is the protagonist, mutual respect becomes necessary.
Are you about your age to notice that?
Even at AKB, it's undeniable that the members who are themselves attached to themselves are ❝ strong ❞ when viewed from an adult's point of view.
Ah-Tashi is the main character.
What isn't interesting about ah-tashi is bad luck.
I only welcome the funny things.
well then this. My friends are gone. Human relationships are also complicated.
Seriously, every human being has that kind of feeling in the depths of their heart, but even so, everyone is the protagonist, so we have to complement each one.
The main characters on TV are different.
There are a lot of characters in Pretty Cure and Hero series that are playing on Sunday morning, but after all, the main character is limited to “one person.”
No matter what, I'm the main one, I'm the main one. you, you guys, sub.
If you look at friendship relationships in that kind of diagram, you may inevitably get carried away.
There is also a protagonist who gets flowers.
There is also a main character who plays the role of Let Me Hold a Flower.
There is also a main character who grows flowers.
There is also a protagonist who looks at flowers.
I think it would be nice if it were the main character who goes out looking for flowers.
There is also a main character named Tsubomi.
This is hasunoha. The lotus flower is also the main character, but even the leaves are useful enough.