Nice to meet you.

Hello. Congratulations on the new year.
It's early in the new year, and I made a mistake on Twitter the other day.
That is, when I found a friend's account and asked to follow me, it wasn't a direct message, and although it wasn't my full name, I gave the name “○○-san, please follow me.” Soon after, my friend told me to delete it, and I quickly deleted the message and apologized many times, but I was disgusted and blocked.
This is completely at fault, and I understand that it is self-sufficient. I'm full of sorry feelings.
What should I do in the future?

Sorry for the disorganized sentence.

3 Zen Responses

I think we should have a proper conversation.

Thank you HanedaExpress for your question. It means that they made a gaffe on Twitter, but instead of apologizing online, I think it would be better to meet in person and apologize. If that doesn't work, there is no choice but to wait for time to pass if you leave it as it is. Really, statements on Twitter and Facebook have ripples spread, so be careful. Gassho

Humans are mechanized aren't they

That was really tough. As for what we should do, I think Master Katata is right. Apologize from a different channel, another medium. If we can meet, we can go.
However, it is taken as “disgusting.” It's probably an issue of online privacy or unwritten rules, but don't forget that “that's not everything” no matter what time it is. A long time ago, when amateurs built programs directly, they laughed off the fact that the program didn't work due to the “difference between,” but now humans may have come close to that.
In the future, what should you do in the unlikely event that you are in the opposite position? If you can remember this time, you'll be able to respond in a human-like way.
Also, even if Twitter gets blocked, how much of a problem is that? I also think so. I also have people who “have been banned from the group, but we meet normally in real life.”

I can't use SNS as a brain

SNS is an act of engaging in human relationships in the brain without permission even though you haven't met the person in person.
Even though you don't know what kind of facial expressions actual humans have, you probably feel as if your opponent is still happening. It's your own shadow.
It's your image of that person.
Exchanging that image with someone is an easy place to fall into the social media.
Is that okay?
Today is the actual living person, and today is slowly purring in a New Year's mood.
Your head has turned into a Twitter brain, and you must be creating the illusion that you are still disliked even now.
Other than directly interacting with the person in person, human relationships are like conversations within oneself.
Notice the trick, apologize if you get a chance, and don't think too deeply about it.
If you don't become an SNS mindset yourself, you alone should take a proper look at reality and try not to deal with that person who is an illusion in your head forever.

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