Hatred for ex-boyfriends (monks)

Even if you repay a heart of resentment with grudge, in the end, nothing but emptiness remains.
Even if you get involved with boring people, you only lose money.
Wouldn't it have been nice if they broke up; it would be better for you to break up the relationship quickly.
It's time to stop taking revenge.
There isn't a single good thing.
That's because you'll never get a sense of accomplishment.

Let's just forget about bad things and enjoy life.
Even painful experiences become “fertilizer” to increase your attractiveness over time.

You're still young, and you should have as many good encounters as you want from now on.

　It's only clear that I'm not the target of your revenge, so I have a feeling that I want to say, “Please go ahead and do it to your heart's content”...
However, in conclusion, revenge in any form will hurt you too.
You may feel that if you take some kind of revenge, you will feel refreshed, but that's not the case.
It seems that Honen Seito's father's will when he was attacked at night was the phrase “if you harbor a grudge but have a grudge, there is no time for the human world to go away.”
If you take revenge on him or her, you will inflict deep wounds in your heart that you may not even notice. And that scar won't go away for the rest of your life.
Also, the moment you take revenge, you will be in the same position as him. If you look at it from a human point of view, it means that you are a person who “can't have a happy life.”
I don't really understand, but apparently he just wears a monk's mask; no, he's just called a “monk” from a public standpoint, so he doesn't seem to be someone who can be called a Buddhist.
People like that are now properly punished by the world even if you don't get your hands or heart dirty. It's not an aspiration or comfort... it's cause and effect.
“Monks who play with two prongs” live a “life where they play with two prongs.”
He himself knows all his deeds. So his own life is naturally defined by his actions... this is true.
Well, it's a waste of time even thinking about him, so this is a change of pace.
Tell yourself, “Well held back!” Let's immerse ourselves in a happy feeling by raising the rewards for flying away from.
And let's just forget about this one.
There is no doubt, from the perspective of Buddhism, that this is the only wise way to live. I say Kippari...

Good evening. I also read the September question the other day. At that time, I was writing things like “we have to break up and start something new... it's going to be a bit bothersome.” Is he different than he was then?
I wonder if “she reached out to me while I had a new girlfriend” isn't the result you wanted a little bit?
I sincerely apologize if I misread it. I'm sorry.
However, if the “former boyfriend” is the same person, far from “only one person is happy,” “the two of them are vigorously heading towards unhappiness.”
Neither Kobayashi nor Hayashi have touched on this point, but I get that kind of hunch, because I'm a careful person.
“Only one person” means “one by one,” no matter how hard you guys are at it. I also think that recognizing that and saying goodbye to bad relationships has led to good relationships... at least now...
While saying that he hates cockroaches, he said, “Let's review how to do it. Please flush it out of the toilet without drawing “is that good or is this good” in the middle of 4:6 o'clock (according to local government regulations).

Oops, let's take revenge. (lie)
well. If I were that new girlfriend, you, I would stab that man in order not to create any more victims or commit crimes. (Laughter) Ah, nails, though. Oh, piercing a nail isn't a real nail, is it? let's stop the injury incident. (._.)
There will be a sense of forgiveness if you leave the other person's misdeeds and faults as they are. That's natural.
Wouldn't it be good if the truth that you were bifurcated should be revealed as truth?
The fact that he bought a grudge from you is that man's definite sin, and that man is responsible for himself.
The only way to punish playmates who trample on women's hearts and correct mistakes is to insist on what the victim should correct or insist on. If you don't, you won't.
Let's split the problem into two.
This problem isn't about revenge.
Funny things are strange.
Bad things are bad.
Don't do anything that hurts people.
However, even if you say let's forgive anything and everything with a heart of forgiveness ♡, that's not how people feel.
If so, instead of blaming the other person, you can correct what should be corrected.
You can just hunt them down normally and properly.
It would be cool to increase the number of hurt people like you and her in the world any more.
A two-pronged relationship is cheating, crime, infidelity, or crime if you are in a marriage relationship.
I think I could at least tell my new girlfriend the truth.
However, the root of the problem is that your dreams and My Story have been destroyed.
It's also your problem.
I couldn't balance your dreams and ideals at all.
It also means that you are hurt by the fact that your dream was broken even more because your dream has been inflated excessively. But don't worry. It's just that your dreams are broken, you're just disillusioned, and you haven't really hurt yourself anywhere. Please check that out. There's no blood, no bruises.
Your My Story is different from the truth.
The truth didn't make you happy; it was an affair beyond cheating.
That's the real truth answer before the answer here.
In love, you're not actually in a relationship with your partner.
He isn't the person you think you can't forgive right now.
It's your thoughts and images of him.
Sin is sin. Evil is evil.
Your problem is your problem.
Thoughts are thoughts.