Is being divorced unconditionally disliked?
Nice to meet you. We got divorced a year ago without two years of marriage and no children. The cause was a personality mismatch and my unforgettable love.
Currently, my partner in love is my boyfriend, and I think we have built a good relationship.
However, when I think about my future with him, I'm worried about whether his parents will acknowledge the fact that they are divorced. (Parents are in their early 60's)
I haven't met him yet, but he seems to be a very strict person, he has a lot of respect for his father, and he seems to think that everything he thinks is right.
They have overcome their parents' objections and acted in the past, and it seems that they have experienced regret as a result.
“I somehow understand that they're divorced and don't look good after introducing them. I think they'll eventually forgive me even if they say it's impossible, but I wonder if that's okay.” He doesn't seem to have confidence either, and he will eventually overcome opposition and fail? There seems to be an idea.
“It's hard to tell my parents, so I think it would be better to break up (I actually broke up about twice, but I'm coming back from him), but now that I'm having fun, I try not to think too much about it.” Thinking about the future has stopped.
They were talking about living together six months later, but they didn't say that either because their parents would get mad at them. That's right.
I also understand the feeling that his parents are as important or more important to him as I am and don't want them to be sad.
I'm an only child, so I think the bond between parents and children is even stronger.
I don't deny that thought either. And the fact that I'm divorced won't go away for the rest of my life.
To be honest, I can't examine whether my parents will actually refuse to be divorced, or what kind of reaction they will have.
I love him so much. I don't want to think about withdrawing myself. I want to start my life over.
There are days of regret about why they got married, and even if I regret it, I can't fully regret it.
I'm glad my friends and my parents didn't have children. That's a good level of experience. Nothing hurts or itches, so next time is with a good partner. Everyone says that. But in the end, I wonder if I can say it because they are not involved.
The experience is ingrained in my body, and I just don't want to feel the same way.
We learned about each other and how much we are willing to do is necessary for marital life.
If I introduce myself to him with confidence, can I encourage him when I'm not in a position to say anything?
Will his parents recognize me as divorced?
