Being fat

I've had a chubby figure since I was young. I'm still fat now, but due to my personality, I've lived my life until now by smiling and pretending to be positive no matter how slandered my appearance was. But every time, in fact, my heart is really hurt. I'm just pretending to be fine. Recently, that has become difficult. I honestly envy people when I see people with normal body shapes. However, they are laid-back and foolish people who don't exercise just because they want to lose weight, they don't care about meals, and in the end, they are sweet to themselves and think in a good way that they should live as they like since it's only one life. I'm sure my life will drastically change if I lose weight... the other day I met someone I used to date after a long time, and I got fat again? I thought it would hurt me to be told, but I was surprised to feel a little bit angry. you've been hurt quite a bit until now, but that's the opposite of what? Moreover, I even thought that I would stop contacting her for a while, and I am convinced that I have finally abandoned the woman. Somehow my feelings for him cooled down all at once. He just said what he thought, and nothing was wrong. Humans are creatures that really care about their appearance, aren't they? It may be strange, but I actually like my fat self quite a bit, but after all, the standard body type is the best for humans, isn't it? Should I work hard to lose weight?

3 Zen Responses

I feel pretty happy right now.

I like chubby people.
Isn't it cute?

Everyone has their own values, so it's all different.

There are also people who like thin people like Mirei Kiritani...
However, I prefer not to impose my preferences.

I'm going to change the conversation...

Well, for the time being, I haven't done any act of losing weight.

There are times when you're unhappy about being fat, right?
I see people with normal body shapes, and I have a desire to be like that.

but...

Well, it's easy to be “who you are,” even if you're dissatisfied, and on top of that, I feel happy to be accepted as you are.

The other day, I probably said heartless words even though I haven't heard them...
Maybe I'll ask hasunoha a question?
I got a preemptive counter punch at that timing, so
Anger is unavoidable.

You are now living in a way of self-acceptance (living as you are).
I hope you don't lose this style.
Keep your mind open.
You can see the Pure Land of Paradise beyond the horizon.

First, please say “namamidabutsu” to yourself.
Then, say “Namamidabutsu” once to his back.

It seems like people think it's ridiculous why don't you say it to him either, but...
The Buddha protects all of us without distinction.
Let's live our lives protected by the Buddha.

When you try something, I think it's probably the moment you change ◎

Ten people, ten colors.
Everyone has different thoughts and preferences.
Of course, everyone thinks entertainers and models are wonderful, but I don't understand their humanity because they just judge that person by their appearance.
Being fat is healthy, and you may need to be careful, but you also have a constitution, and slander is terrible. Everyone gets hurt, right?

I wonder what the ideal body type is. I don't know either, but...
Humans are influenced by their surroundings, for better or worse.
I want to wear those clothes! If you think about it, they'll try diets, imitate their favorite celebrities, and makeover their makeup and hairstyle. When he falls in love, he tries to become the woman he likes.
So, you should work hard to lose weight! I'm not in a position to be bossy, but I think it's probably the moment you change when you challenge something (*^^*)

Let's go on a rice porridge diet together

Lose weight while eating.
Damn it, I'll get tired of rice porridge in 2 days.
So they make rice porridge that you won't get tired of.
Be sure to eat one meal a day.
I recommend stir-fried vegetables and rice porridge.
Fry the bean sprouts for 19 yen or the vegetable stir fry set for 97 yen with “Chinese dashi” and soy sauce.
When it becomes flabby, I dare to use a large bowl and soak it in the rice porridge.
It feels like a Korean dish called Bowser, and it's delicious, and I never get tired of it.
You can get money by dripping sesame oil. ... but modestly.
There is a sense of satisfaction when the broth is thickened.
If you keep going, the desire to eat something else... will naturally come out.
At that time
It tempts the brain to say “I want to eat delicious rice porridge, I want to eat delicious rice porridge, I want to eat delicious rice porridge.” Then they change the dashi.
Italian flavor, Korean style, curry style, Japanese style...
Then I was also the one who ate mapo tofu and dandan noodles until a while ago, but I lost that feeling.
Daring to throw away things that could be eaten in food warehouses is also effective.
This is because if you have ingredients, you have to use them due to motai consciousness.
When it's pickled in rice porridge, your stomach won't accept anything heavy.
After that, let's avoid relationships.
A relationship with alcohol makes everything a mess.
I'm Boudey because I give in to the temptation to get along.
I recommend using your own rice porridge cooker. They start at around 3000 yen.
If you soak the rice porridge for 2 hours, it will swell.
Eh, is it OK to eat this much? Since you can eat about that amount, you can also get a feeling of satiety.
Drink strong coffee or tea when you're hungry.
If you eat a lot, there is a possibility of chronic rhinitis.
Use nasal sprays to improve nasal passage.
If you don't feel the aroma, you won't get a sense of human satisfaction and you will eat a lot.
I'm waiting for your report once you've lost 5 kilograms.
I'll put a curse on you if you don't lose weight. (lol)
Just kidding, try using this as a trigger first.
Somehow, if you don't lose weight, you might be punished...? (°O°;) Seems like I'm suppressing myself.

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