I've been working at my new job for a month, and it's depressing to go to work every day. Since I have qualifications, I went in to see if it would be different from my previous job, but I was so confused by the amount of work and the number of customers, my stomach was tingling and throwing up every day. I don't feel like every day is fun, I can't smile even though it's a hospitality business, and I'm afraid of serving customers, so I don't feel like I'm living.
Thank you for your hard work. I think it would be painful not to be able to smile, and I'm quite worried that I don't feel like I'm alive.
It means that my stomach feels sharp and I throw up, but I think it's better to get this from a doctor as soon as possible. I'm not a doctor, so I can't say for sure, but I may have a stomach ulcer. Maybe I'll take a short break, but I think it would be nice if I could think about work again after getting in shape.
I'm sure your concerns are complicated, but I recommend that you solve them one by one first. First, take care of yourself.
o (^_^) o why am I doing this work?
Let's dare to list the purpose of the work.
For life
for myself
for money
For the future
for someone else (for your family, for someone you love)?
In fact, no one continues to have the feeling of “for something” while busy and hectic at work.
However, people can do their best if they have some kind of “good reason.”
As long as you have a good reason to work hard, you can overcome a difficult road.
I am also a hunger for my wife and kids when it's hard! There are times when I inspire myself.
Actually, the people around you may only feel like cold people right now, but they are deeply connected.
There used to be a time when work was difficult, just like you, even though she had a relaxed expression because she was used to work now.
There may be people who are still experiencing painful stress even now, even if you don't show it to people.
They just don't look like that on the surface, but deep down they are friends who are the same, the same people, and the same subtlety.
Your boss must also be working hard for the family you should protect.
As customers, those who come usually work, so they work hard for others in the same way.
When you notice that, you'll be assigned to the same department as the people around you in the true sense of the word.
That is the big department called Society and Working People.
Hard things are hard for everyone. But if you don't work, you can't live.
It's hard for everyone. I can do my best for someone I love.
Don't just focus on loss.
On the other hand, let's also look at what you can gain from it and what you can gain.
Heaven and earth, nature, and society sometimes take a lot from people, and we must not forget that this makes us live our lives.
That's why we shouldn't just focus on what's lost.
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/97
Let's change our perspective. No matter how painful it is, always
There are things I can learn
Can I help someone
Can meet someone's requirements
Able to interact with people
You can feel joy, a sense of accomplishment, and awareness as a member of society... discover one limitless benefit every day.
This time, the trajectory was corrected in order to re-examine the significance of work.
Let's start again tomorrow. (^o^)/
Hello Rii-san.
It's about your family, your work, and your own physical condition. Maybe they're confused about a lot of things...
When I'm upset, if I can't move... it's hard.
My chest narrows and it's hard to breathe. My head is heavy and my body is sluggish. My face feels stiff, and I'm afraid to look around me.
You may be blaming or hurting yourself.
I think it's fine to go to the hospital for suspected stomach ulcers.
If you solve one of them quickly, the others may go well.
Choosing your physical condition there... is one way, isn't it?
Smiles are important in the hospitality industry. But smiling isn't the only thing that matters. And it's okay if you don't have a smile. Sometimes a real smile comes out of a make-believe smile.
Please don't confine yourself to yourself.
Rii-sama
This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is a humble answer to the question.
Actually, while looking back on the questions and responses from everyone so far, I thought I was able to start taking a new step right after that, and to be honest, I was a little happy.
Of course, it's a new job, and it is said that there is a lot of work volume and customers from scratch as a rookie, so if you haven't gotten used to it enough yet, it's not fun, and you still have a depressing feeling, I really know it will be difficult to continue...
I've also answered the following questions before.
Question “I'm looking for a job in a hurry and I regret it.
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/109
Question “I haven't talked to my parents”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/111
Maybe we still haven't settled on a firm ambition to say this is it or what we should work for. Of course, you may be able to solidify these as you work, but maybe it's still a little early now.
I hope you can also refer to the following questions, but for example, how about participating in volunteer activities once? It may be a good “trigger” for you to look at yourself about the future.
Question “A Life of Bankruptcy and Restructuring”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/152
If you are still aspiring to become a nursery teacher, it might be a good idea to volunteer to help out in activities at child-rearing support clubs, NPOs, preschools, etc.
I think it would be good to have a little more time to work on what it is that I really want to do and work on it until I can solidify it. Also, once it's solidified, it becomes necessary to make an effort and do your best in order to get it done. Of course, don't overdo it. If you break your body or mind, you won't have any roots or children.
As mentioned above, if you seek good relationships, I'm sure you'll run into good relationships. I think Rii-sama will also change drastically depending on how she moves towards a good relationship from now on. I pray that you will have a good relationship.
Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho
I think it would be nice if you could take a good rest once.
Please let your mind and body rest properly.
I hope you can think about getting a job even after that.
Looking at the series of posts from you right now, it seems like you're in a hurry...
Especially when it comes to reading this post...
To Rii-sama
Why did you get that job in the first place?
There was something wrong with the fact that it was newly changed, right?
Honestly, work isn't always fun.
Isn't it important to find the joy of work in it?
Depending on that person's way of thinking, you can feel fun or boring
If you do the same job anyway, why don't you think about it so that it will be fun?
It looks like they are in the hospitality business
Work from person to person.
In particular, people's impressions are very important.
If you treat your work with that kind of feeling, it will be conveyed to your partner someday.
Or maybe it's already been transmitted...
On top of that, consider various things. Gassho