Do you have ancestors in graves?
Hello. I always read it while having fun and being healed.
The other day, since it's the equinox, I went to visit graves where my grandfather's and grandmother's bones are located for the first time in a long time.
I love my grandparents, and even now, about 7 years after they passed away, I still talk about them at family gatherings.
I'm so busy with work that it's hard to make an opportunity to go visit graves, but when I put my hands together in front of the grave, I hope, “Grandpa, grandma, this happened at home,” or sometimes, “My mother is in a mess with my father, so please do something about it.” I also think to myself that they're being pretty unreasonable (laughs)
Now, when it comes to visiting graves, I was looking at this site and other sites, and suddenly I had a question.
It may be different depending on the denomination, but soon after death, I learned that there is a way of thinking that my ancestors were reborn (at least 7 years before my grandparents), and they have forgotten about their original family and are living a different life.
So, even if you go to the grave and report something, isn't the person you meant to report it to be there? I think, but of course it's a one-way street?
Also, when I can't go to the grave even on the occasion of Obon or Ohigan, I at least put my hands on the Buddhist altar, but in that case, the Buddha must instantaneously move according to the convenience of people living in the Buddhist altar and the tomb putting their hands together...!?
Please let me know how it works!
