About entrance celebrations

I was worried because I didn't know if it would be appropriate to consult here, but I will do my best to consult with you.
It's probably a small thing. It doesn't matter. Maybe I'm just being stingy, but I'm confused.
This April, my older child became a high school student, and my younger child became a middle school student. Expenses such as uniforms and gym clothes were high due to double enrollment.
I received congratulations from my mom and my husband's mother, and I was able to prepare what I needed.

I have two older sisters, and they have given entrance celebrations to my nephews and nieces each time, so I thought without permission that my children would also be congratulated for their enrollment. To be clear, I was counting on it. That was misplaced, and I didn't get congratulations from my two older sisters. I sincerely thought “congratulations” for my nephew and niece, and I also received words of thanks saying “thank you,” and I think they all have their own ideas about whether or not to give congratulations. However, I don't have too much money either, and it's a celebration I made by making ends meet. To be honest, I also thought “I'll get both of these.” It also looks like my husband, and I want to get congratulations. I'm so confused that I can't even say “Please congratulate me” face to face.

I'm sorry the conversation didn't come together well, but please give me some tips to clear my mind.
Thank you for your support.