My future with my married boyfriend

I have a boyfriend who is more than one year older, and he is married and has two small children. The marital relationship has broken down, there is almost no business conversation, and it seems that they are being told to have a relationship outside.
However, it seems that they won't get divorced until they think about children and become adults.
He has many romantic relationships and has dated various women. I was my first partner and I really liked him, so we didn't break up even when he confessed this.
But I want to get married, and I want kids too. If possible, I'd like to get married to my current boyfriend, but I don't see any hope. When we meet, I'm happy, and I'm aware of the state where I'm turning my eyes away from reality without worrying about the future.
Also, there is something strange about his words and actions, and although it's simple, he doesn't really think about my burden when it comes to money, and I'm worried about what he thinks.

We can't break up because we like each other, but isn't it right for us to just keep dating?

4 Zen Responses

incorrect

Stop dating people like that right now.

If I were to learn

I don't want to tell them to be honest about my feelings... or anything.
Maybe they say, “Because I really like it.” but.
How much does it hurt me to just go “because I love it so much.” Are you ruining your future? learn it? at best. “When you're young, you do stupid things, right?” can be summed up in two seconds.
It's a strike right in the middle and is included in “Things you should admonish yourself and avoid in order to be happy (The Five Commandments).”
Also, no matter which point you look at, it's just risky for you.
The other day, there was a discussion about a “satisfying love triangle,” but please take a look at the exchange there as well.
If you wrote a consultation here, I would like to say that you should “turn your eyes away from reality” and tackle that reality.

You know in your head that it's a bad relationship.

but
Because the feeling you like is winning,
They're probably worried.

My rule of thumb is,
I think it's better to prioritize mental judgment.
Eventually, my feelings will catch up with that decision.

It may be painful at first,
A love affair with no future in sight,
From a love affair full of anxiety
Please run away quickly.

It's better to break up

I'm Tange, an ESE fortune teller.
According to my ESE horoscope, that man is quite a raccoon. I'm just dating for my own convenience.
I'm just playing a similarly unnice man, an unlikable person.
Because if they were really nice people, they would definitely break up from that person's side “because you'll be unhappy with me.” They don't get involved even though they're in an adulterous state. I'm saying it like this, but it seems that it's easy to make a woman in her 20s feel like that with a bunch of words and psychological tactics when it comes to that year.
Young women don't even notice that they're being deceived because they're young. What I don't know is Buddha.
If you don't want to be used as an outlet for sex with a convenient woman, continue the relationship.
If I want to be a smarter woman, Damens should write an email within this week and break up. If you do that, a good man with even more serious parents will appear, according to my ESE horoscope results.

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