Isn't it OK to be an unrelated Buddha after all?

It may be unnecessary, but once upon a time, I also hated people.
I had a strong sense of repulsion, I didn't like being suppressed, and I was the scourge of my own justice (^.^)
In my case, it's what's called a grudge and bitterness. When you dislike people or have a heart that hates them, a large amount of energy of anger is secreted, causing tension and stiffness, causing illness and suffering for yourself.
Anger and stress are simply bad bacteria in the mind and body.
Graves' disease says that stress is strictly prohibited and it is good to reduce stress, so at this point, it's a good idea to do whatever you like with graves for your health. Live your own way. (^.^) Because no one is blaming me. (^.^) Isn't it okay to be blamed, please don't worry. (^.^) If you think someone is saying something bad, that is also your own thought, so in the end, it's not about making the other person or other person a problem, but about changing the way you perceive things yourself and getting better at it.
“Nobody binds you down.” “You can just be who you are.”
If parents have been strongly suppressed for many years (even if they don't feel like it), it's about setting up Independence Day to acknowledge and respect each other's differences, don't interfere too much, and maintain a good sense of distance. In families where oppression is severe, parents seek obedience in the name of obedience from their children, and children seek respect for their own dignity as they become adults, but there are many families where they are unable to successfully become mentally independent of each other due to many years of parent-child relationships.
If you are looking for an even happier way of life, it seems that you have strong repulsive and repulsive feelings against others within you, so it may become stressful and cause other illnesses in the future, so you should switch to a stress-free lifestyle only while you are alive.
Buddhism is for people just like you (^.^).
It clears your mind when you awaken a bodhi heart (a strong desire to further improve your mind), visit places of missionary worship at temples in the real world of life, and practice meditation and meditation.
If you like, it's the same Saitama, so please contact me and wake me up at Sayama City.

Death will eventually come to the body of a living thing.
They say they want you to say goodbye to the end of their lives like this
It's a notebook for writing things.
My upbringing, what I like, what I like, my memories up until now.
And the final form of funeral, the memorial service. Even graves, of course.
And I entrust that notebook to someone who sees the end of my life.
It's not as strict as a will with legal effect,
It's a reminder that I want to end my last day in this way.
If no matter what, write your thoughts in the ending note,
Please entrust it to someone.
If you really think so, then your intentions must be respected.

The ending note is prepare for real death
Looking back on my life up until now, and from when I finished writing it again,
How do you spend the rest of your life
It's also a notebook that gives you an opportunity.

Kaori-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is a humble answer to the question.

“Unrelated Buddha”... first of all, it is necessary to think about what defines “unrelated,” but in general, I think it can be said that after one passes away, there will be no client (close blood relative) who will mourn one's body, and that there will be no client (close relatives) who perform memorial services.

However, in my humble opinion, I know that we should not get caught up in “unrelated” or “related” in the first place.

In Buddhism, at least most of the monks are devoting themselves to daily Buddhist practice, work, memorial services, good deeds, and altruism, hoping that all sentient beings in trouble will reach enlightenment and nirvana. Even if there is no blood relative to the client, as long as there are countless monks working with a bodhisattva heart, I hope you can think that all memorial services will be applied to sentient beings.

Bodhisattva theory
http://t.co/aSBtLQQI

In particular, after reciting various sutras, this is an inflection sentence that can be read to the extent that it is safe to say, “Hopefully, with this merit, it will be applied to everything in general, and that we and sentient beings will all establish Buddhism. There are “Jikkō III: All the Buddhas, Buddha Bosatsu, and Mahahannya Haramitsu.”

In lost and suffering sentient beings, there is no distinction between being related and unrelated. It is important in Buddhism for all sentient beings to fulfill Buddhism, and eventually accumulate memorial services, good deeds, and acts of mercy and altruism to exert “merit” in order to be invited to enlightenment.

Also... Kaori is definitely not alone. Thanks to the various “relationships” of countless supports, we have been able to live our lives until now and in the future.

First, I hope you will slowly recuperate, be cured of your illness, and then little by little you will be able to look back at your future and what you want to do without being impatient.

“Your tears will only make you stronger, like flowers blooming on asphalt, don't be afraid of everything you see tomorrow, tomorrow will come for you” by singer-songwriter Okamoto Maya from “TOMORROW”

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

　Kaori, I've written about unrelated Buddha before, but even if you insist that you want to be unrelated, you have a family, so I don't think you'll be able to listen to your wishes.
No matter what, if Muunbutsu is good,
① If a family member or relative dies and you live until you live alone for the rest of your life, you will be unrelated. Please live until then. For hundreds and thousands of years. Like Taketori no Okina...
② Will you go somewhere far away, live alone, and die alone? But even if you die, you'll eventually be returned to your own family.
Nobody can decide what happens after death. In the first place, at Buddhist funerals, people become monks, go to the Buddha, become disciples, and practice ascetic practices together. I don't think it's the paradise Kaori drew. Maybe I don't have time to worry about my friends or my husband. (Are you going to tell a lie like you've been watching The Preacher?)
I think today's media and entertainers are responsible for thinking that people who live positively have dreams and hopes are people with fulfilling lives. I don't look at values or guidelines for life there, and most people don't have dreams, and they don't live positively, so what should I say? I think I'm living with selfishness (selfishness) and jealousy.
I have a nursing job as a side job, and there are only people like that. They only say things that are in good shape and only pretty things, but in times of emergency, they say they are right, you are wrong, etc., and they are unilaterally treated as bad people. My approach may be exaggerating, but something is wrong. I thought I was born into a bad world.
What should I do? Will it be solved if they become unrelated? You don't do that, do you? Let's stop thinking about it. Let's hit Muunbutsu with his resignation letter. I'll consult with you as much as you want until your concerns are replaced by complaints. I think it's probably an unhelpful answer. I will consult with you as many times as I like until I have an answer that you are satisfied with. Best regards!

I read your previous reply.
While being treated, you're also building up your physical strength.
He's a hard worker ◎

Parents worry about their children and are important. I want to tell you the important things clearly! Sometimes, my thoughts clash too much.

Wouldn't it be better for you to walk at your own pace~ ♬
If you think so now that unrelated Buddhism is fine, I think that's fine too. You don't have to think too much about it~. It's okay if there are times when you can't be positive. Right now, you can cherish your alone time. Read a book or watch a movie. When it gets cooler again, I think I'll go out with my friends ~ I think that kind of relaxing time is necessary now.

But communicating your thoughts to someone is important in order to take a step forward.
So, it's good to ask questions about things you care about in this way, and when you feel good, I want you to talk about various things with your family and friends.

It's a hot season, so don't hesitate to go to Bochibochi to build strength (*^^*)

I'm not saying a lot.

Please call 090-3390-2137 (mobile phone for consultation only).

I'll speak in your own words, not in written words.

because the road will always be paved...

My future husband seems sad (; Ω; `) Kitty Easy!!

Are you lonely right now?

Even if I think I'm alone, there's still someone there.
No matter what, there's nothing you can do about it. After all, it's not like I'm living alone.
It's so ridiculous that I'm living alone, and it's hard to say.
So, do your best as much as you can.
The rest is “left to the Buddha, Ladyboy, and God.”

However, for some reason, a sense of loneliness comes rushing in
There is a person called myself who is closest to me, but I can't control that much by myself,
I can't help but hate it (but I actually do. But that's why I don't like it.)
I think that's why.

I think falling in love with that guy is both an ascetic practice and a part of life.
Bet your whole life and fall in love with yourself. I believe that is what Buddhism teaches.

To become an unrelated Buddha, or to wish to be buried unrelated, go to a funeral home or the internet
If you search, you'll get a hit.

It's not up to us to decide whether Muunbutsu is good or bad
It depends on your own religious views that you have cultivated through your own walk.
Why is it “bad to be unrelated” in the life you've walked through?
Is that “you decided”? Maybe it's just because someone says it's a “bad thing.”

I'm sorry, but I cried and cried even more and more cried
“What do you want to do yourself” may be difficult, but it may be difficult, but you have to look at it
Maybe it won't happen.

Also, now that I'm afraid that my child knows you exist, I can't help but pray.
Please, I hope Kaori is happy.
Please, I hope Kaori is at peace.

I will continue to live my life thinking that my encounter with you is more precious than anything else.
For young children, you are an irreplaceable “friend.”

To Kaori

I honestly don't know about the afterlife.
However, apparently what you know is a good thing.
No one has come back from that world, so...

Every human being dies alone.
However, why is one person good?
Why don't you want to be in the same grave as your future husband?
I may be able to meet a wonderful husband from now on.
What is the true meaning of that?
I definitely want you to ask about that.

You'll have wonderful parents, siblings, relatives, and friends all around you.
Isn't that great on its own?
Just by connecting with others, you may be able to see the answer to that question. Gassho