hasunoha

nicknamed

For example, a child's name

The eldest son Sho
Second son Ryota

If that's the case, the eldest son's name is not abbreviated, he just flies,
The second son is abbreviated as Ryo-kun and Yo-chan.
Is it a pity that your name is Ryota?
If that's the case, do you think it's okay to just cool off from the beginning?

4 Zen Responses

It's not a pity at all

A nickname is a nickname, and it may be different from your real name.
It's not a pity at all.

Don't you feel sorry for yourself, who is worried and suffering from such things?
Don't worry too much about it.

What do you expect from your child, right?
Cool is a cool, intellectually, and calm feeling in the sense that it's cool.
Thick means thick, so it's a strong and reliable feeling.
Are you expecting the former or both?
It depends on how the parents feel.
However, they don't necessarily grow up as the name suggests.

In my case,

Hibiki ⇒ Hi-kun
Masaya ⇒ Ma-kun
Shingo ⇒ Shin-chan
That's it.

I am
Takahiko ⇒ Ta-kun
That was it.

The nickname is probably like that.
The kids don't care at all.

I'm worried about you

I'm sorry for being rude to you out of the blue.
You've been asked questions about your name all the time, but “I saw it on the internet” made me uneasy, and I'm stuck there.
Was there anything else like that? Something I saw on the internet had a huge hit with you, and I couldn't get out of that thought.
Or maybe someone around you regularly says all kinds of things about your child's name.
Can you talk about the background of that area soon? By doing so, I think you'll probably get hints from the monks that will make your life a little easier (not limited to your name).
I've been called by the same nickname ever since first grade, and I've never felt sorry for myself. If you think “it's a pity to be called by Ada's name,” I think you should just call them in full. For the most part, I don't think children care much about “what they are called”, as long as it's not a bad word.