What should I do to laugh? (long)

Nice to meet you, my name is Itsuki.
The question remains in the title, but first I'll talk about the circumstances.

I've always been told that I'm “expressionless” since I was young.
When I was a kid, I didn't really understand the meaning even when I was warned by my parents, but I tried to laugh, but it was tough when I wasn't aware of it, and people around me said it again, and when I became a high school student, I joined the drama club, and when I became a high school student, it made me laugh, but my cheeks hurt my cheeks, and it became somewhat painful, so I gave up.
Now, it's been a long time since I joined the company as a member of society, so I was selected as the education clerk for new employees coming in from now on as a senior, but my boss told me that I was “expressionless.” Certainly, if the person I'm about to teach is expressionless, they'll be scared, so I think it's bad, so I'm asking a question.
“How can I laugh?”
Even if you practice with a mirror over and over again, it will break the mirror, so please tell me if there are any good methods.

4 Zen Responses

Please practice!

I read it. I see, laughing again is actually quite difficult, isn't it?
If possible, why don't you go to various fun places with your family and close people with the intention of practicing in various ways?
Experience fun attractions at theme parks such as Disneyland and Universal Studios, go to vaudeville, and go see Yoshimoto Shinkigeki.
Why don't you go and watch a variety of comedy movies? If possible, try sharing that fun with people close to you.
You probably won't be able to laugh out loud right away, but try to respond to funny things little by little.
Also, try watching a fun program on your own in between, and practice laughing.
Don't be in a hurry, please relax and be able to laugh from the bottom of your heart while experiencing all kinds of things with everyone!

Fortune comes to the laughing gate, right?

I sincerely pray that you will continue to laugh with all of you from now on, spend a heart-rich and fulfilling day, and grow.

Please do your best!

Do what you love

When I was a student.
It was a time when I liked FamilyMart melon bread, Famichiki, and wasa beef.
Famichiki also used to fry chicken wings around that time.
At a certain point, products from a manufacturer called “MUJI FOODS” were sold, and I'm glad to hear that.
There are cheap sweets, and there are also useful stationery, etc.
Thai curry is pretty tasty.
Butter chicken curry was popular, wasn't it?
Ohohoho. The only thing on my mind was food, wasn't it?
A “unbranded food” store has also opened in a supermarket called SEIYU.
I used it a lot.
I kept getting it wrong for the next 30 years.
I mean it wasn't Muji Foods, it was “Muji Ryohin.” (lol)
⛄
Also, it always happens during Christmas time, doesn't it? that song.
MORO BITO!!!!! ♪
It's a song like Shu ha Kimeri ~ Shu ha Kimeri ~ ♪.
I remember singing it when I was in elementary school.
The phrase “Schwaki Maserie.”
I didn't understand the meaning of that. I thought it was German or something.
You don't understand the meaning, do you? Schwaki parsley.
Somehow it looked like cider or champagne was a swirling image.
Ohohoho. I guess the only thing on my mind was food. (Narrator: Image by Akihiro Miwa)
My mom apparently thought the “sleigh” in “Morobito (Morobito) Zorite” was a small sled. Pupu P
There is a feeling that something will come on the sleigh.
Well then please sing it in your head.
Wow, AH-! Shuuuuuuuuu, Acky, Mercenary ♪ ※
Roughly what. this “AH!” I mean. did the Lord come and go insane?
While I was thinking back on that, Pretty Cure, which my kids were watching, was over.
Today is Sunday, isn't it?
Please go play somewhere.
It's a good idea to come to our zazen session when you have free time.
“The chief priest didn't come” zazen ceremony
Anyone starting at 3:00 p.m. on Sunday
※The Lord will not come

Who uses a lot of emotional language?

Hello. There shouldn't be a law that says “if you practice, you'll break a mirror,” but that probably happened once or twice.
Well, even if people say they have poor facial expressions, aren't there “many emotional ups and downs” in the first place?
As an original mechanism, it detects various states of the face and body (other than the brain), and it seems that emotions are sensed by integrating them, but “poor facial expression” simply means “not angry or happy.” I think it's probably “Futou if I dare to name it.”
However, in social life, it is necessary and useful to express your mood and accept that of the other person.
To that end... how about making up for the lack of expressiveness of “appearance” with words?
For example, say aloud, “Oh, that feels good.” “I'm so happy.” “Oh yeah, this is fine. I'm impressed.” “It's painful to be told that.” “I'm in trouble” or something. Fortunately, there are many words that express emotions in Japanese, so why not aim to be proficient in using them.

Also, it's unnecessary, but is there any point in writing “it's long”? I wonder if I'm sorry I don't have the ability to put sentences together? An indication that putting it together is troublesome? If it's a serious story for you, the length doesn't matter.

Why don't you try appearing in Iromonea.

as a spectator.

After
Rather than having to practice or not being expressionless.
Why don't you try interacting with a baby?
Rather than creating laughter alone, it's better to create it between you and someone else
I think that's a great thing.

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