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Is this my fault?

I'm running for the student council.
Previously, I was on duty to clean up dishes etc. called school lunch duty.
After going to the lunch room to clean up the dishes, when I tried to return to the classroom, a child in the same grade was carrying a box containing tableware and rice, and it seemed very heavy.
It seemed very painful, so I brought the dishes and brought them to the lunch room.
Then I was invited by the teacher
“○○-san is running for the student council, right? I thought they helped them to be chosen if they did something like this. I think others think there are people who think too, so stop it.”
I was told. So when I explained why I helped, they scolded me.
It wasn't because it was an election or something, I just helped because it seemed heavy, so why do they have to be scolded
Is this my fault??

5 Zen Responses

I think we learn “something” through conflicting events.

Yume
You're not bad.
Also, I can understand what the teacher is saying.

through this contradictory event
I think it's about learning “something.”

Whether it's before the election or not
If it means helping someone in need
I think that's really great.
I wonder what the teacher is saying.

However, Yume started with that teacher
Even though I don't usually do it, it's before the election
It means that it was recognized that they were helping.

Even though I didn't usually do anything in particular
if you suddenly started helping people before the election
I think they're doing it to get selected
It means that there are also people who think negatively when it comes back.

However, people who were directly helped
I might be thankful and vote for Yume.

As Yume was described from the beginning
“It wasn't because it was an election or something, I just helped because it seemed heavy, so why do they have to be scolded?”
If that's the case, I think you should keep going without worrying about anything.

However, due to a word from the teacher
If there is a part where you hesitate to help
It probably means that the desire to “be chosen” has sprung up.

I think that the activities just before the election will also have an impact,
How did you get involved with people before that
I think it's big.

I wish you all the best.

Helping someone in need

I think it's quite natural to help someone in need.

However, everyone has a different way of thinking. It's not right or wrong, it's something different. Even if you're a teacher, that doesn't mean you're right. There's nothing wrong with that, though.

So, wouldn't it be better to put the elections aside and live as usual?
There's nothing to think about.
Don't be caught up in the teacher's words. That's because it's a story from the past.

No, you're not wrong

I think you did a good thing. That's a very good thing. However, when elections are involved, people get bothered in many ways...

The election for middle school students means second graders, isn't it? I think it's about time we know it, so I'll write it, but when it comes to elections for adult politicians, it might be a crime to distribute “fans” during the election period because everyone is going to be hot in the summer. It may be assumed that they collected votes by handing over money or goods. It's what's called a takeover or something called Wylo.

However, if you make a hole in the fan to put a handle or thumb in and distribute it, it's no good because it's a “fan,” but if you hand it in a round cardboard, it's fine because it's a leaflet or leaflet. That's ridiculous, isn't it? I think all adults are stupid and bothersome. But I also know that if you don't do that, you won't be able to prevent Wylo. It's also important.

In this way, a country that values laws (rules) over emotions and makes no mistakes is called a nation governed by the rule of law (rule of law).

Recently, however, there has been an increase in the number of people who want their emotions to be valued, since they won't be convinced if they only value rules. So what I started doing is the trial jury (baishin) system. Let's decide if Yume is good or bad! When it comes to that story, unrelated people like us say “I think this way,” and it's a method where they don't decide based on rules alone. Please ask your social studies teacher for details. I don't know if it's written in social studies textbooks, but it's interesting to study while applying it to familiar things in this way.

What were you talking about? Oh, oh yeah, my wife is from Chiba, so I asked about it, but Chiba seems to be a pretty tough place for that kind of thing. What Yume did may or may not be recognized depending on the location. This is what is called a grey zone. This is because there are places that prioritize rules, and there are also places that prioritize compassion. It also changes with the times. As we become adults, let's also learn how to protect ourselves in the midst of such differences in places.

People tend to imagine the other person's mind by projecting their own mind. Therefore, people who move by profit and loss think that they are driven by profit and loss, even if other people do it with a pure feeling. You're not bad.
Only pure people can understand the feelings of pure people. ^ ^

I think the teacher got into trouble

“Well, it's because the teacher is before the election or because he doesn't like being thought of as being hypocritical, so even if someone is really in trouble right in front of them, they won't help them. The teacher may be fine with that, but I don't think that kind of lifestyle is very favorable. Thank you for pointing that out. I'll use it as a reference.”
Speaking of which, it's over, but it seems like they're going to get scolded even more (laughs).
Adults only think that their opinions are the most correct, so even children aren't stupid, so if you think this is wrong, don't believe what adults say.
At times like that, you can just pretend to be honest and say “hi” on the spot.
Teachers who look at you from above like that will repel you, think they are “cocky,” and they will take a look at you.
If I were you, “If you do that, getting angry, does being opposed to your teacher's theory make you uncomfortable and angry? Do children get angry because they also have the feeling that they should shut up and listen to adults from above? I told that story directly to the principal, and I'm interested in what kind of opinions you can get, so is it OK if I participate in tomorrow's staff meeting?” or something, it seems like I'll just say it. (^<^)
There are many ways to perceive things in terms of how they are viewed and interpreted, but the truth that they helped people in need has no good or bad intentions, good intentions, or bad intentions.
Even if it was a performance, the people who were helped were saved.
People who speak out without help only move their mouths even though they don't do anything.
Please don't become that kind of adult.
Also, by being viewed from such a one-sided perspective, you had a valuable experience where both good intentions and such pure feelings were hurt, so please let them know that in the future, this is not the case if there are people who only see it that bad, and that there are other aspects.
I don't think your actions were wrong.