quirks

Thank you for your question, Mr. AS.
I'm going to see cancer on someone I know.
I can't say hello.
That's probably because I'm worried about what people think of me.

“Wagan Aigo” (Wagan Aigo) in a sutra called the “Buddha theory, Muryoju-kyo”
There is a word.
It literally means using kind words with a friendly face.
This is one of the offerings.
And an offering is something you have, also called a “charity offering”
I'm happy to throw it away as an alms.

You may not be able to do it right now,
It has a nice “peaceful face” and “kind words.”

Tell your “Japanese love words” to your acquaintances and to the Buddha
Please try making an offering.

I'm sorry that all of a sudden, I used terrible words in the title. Since the other day, I've been watching a lot of “adding” to teenagers' questions, saying “it's probably stupid, but it's serious for me.”
First, even if it's a question that doesn't “come down” to anyone else, if it's serious for you, then it's a serious problem. I think it was courageous that you exposed yourself and wrote it.
It's something I can't think of when someone I haven't met in a long time, but I don't like it if they give me a negative (bad) impression, so I'm taking a quick look at it.
First, are there any events you can think of as a cause? “When I thought they were acquaintances, they were wrong people, and I made people I don't know feel bad.”
As for the cause, well, “it would be better if I could remember.”
Now on to the main subject. What I value while raising children is “being able to say hello with a smile.” To that end, I = an adult must first treat me with a smile. To that end, I practiced looking in the mirror and making a smile. It's fine if you think, “It's gross to smile in the mirror.” It's fine if you think, “I'm smiling, I can show it to my kids.”
Next, I spoke to the blooming flowers with a smile. There was no response from my opponent, but thanks to you, I was able to do it safely with zero tension. However, if this also feels gross, it's fine to feel it.
Then, they increased the number of times they smiled and the number of times they said hello out loud. Then... the number of children I can say hello to has increased.
What I want to say is that humans “even if the way of thinking is simple and simple, changes occur when we actually act.” Reading “Honen in the Kamakura period explained that people can pass away in paradise by praising Nembutsu” in textbooks and actually saying “Namu Amida Buddha” aloud are different things.

If I were to apply the one before, I would stand in front of a mirror and start imagining. “Oh, someone I haven't met in a long time has come,” and I look in the mirror. face looking at cancer. Observe from there until she smiles. “You can do ^_^, right?” Make sure you can change your expression.
So, here's a summary.
“You might think this method is gross, but it's serious for me.”

I'm so envious.
I don't have confidence in myself and can't look people in the eye. I feel a sense of shame.
I'm sure you can see cancer because you don't have such negative feelings.
The other person doesn't feel anything.
If you feel it, there's nothing wrong with it. It's not like you did anything wrong either.
It would be enough to just say nod with a smile.

Hello. The representative of the Japan Cancer Monitoring Association's “The More Holes Open, the Heated Gaze Association,” I'm dying from Shoji Nime.
First of all, if anyone meets a human, I'll always see cancer.
It is said that they will see cancer for at least 0.000001 seconds, and Mars.
It may be called choi-look, but it's a cancer watch called choi-look, flicker-watch (laughs). You can watch it.
Rather, let's take a closer look.
The eye learns a variety of things through visual information.
Compared to Nipon people, Gaikoku people are more cancer-prone.
The executives at our border were so surprised that Mars showed cancer.
So, even if you take a close look, no one will be concerned about the fact that this is looking at cancer all the time.
※Just be careful about that line.
Let me say one thing, but (oh, I'm not mad)
The real way to see cancer is really just watching.
I'm not saying this, but your cancer views haven't reached the initial level of our association.
This is because I look at my partner and mix my own thoughts with that.
The only real way to see cancer is to just stare at it.
Don't bring any thoughts into it.
In Buddhism, it's called orthodoxy, and they look at it without mixing personal opinions or personal assumptions with it.
Try doing that.
Rather, if you are aware that you are watching cancer, the effects will appear immediately.
“just watch”
Just watching means not bringing your own thoughts and ideals into it.
Let's practice with something familiar.
Just take a quick look. that's all.
Try doing that against your opponent next time.
If you don't bring your own thoughts to that, seeing cancer is the best Buddhist tool.