My husband and parents-in-law only look at childbirth lightly

When you look at your husband or father, you look at them in the same way as if they were a monk... so frustration and anxiety are created within you.
I was a single person before I was a monk. Unfortunately, it doesn't turn out the way you think. Even if you try to change people, it's difficult even if you're a married couple.
In the end, there is no choice but to accept such a husband, father, and mother.

But for now, let's just think about having a baby. When they think about various things, they become uneasy, and they probably take things that don't go the way they want as evil and become aggressive. My husband is the only person I can rely on. Why don't you honestly say that you're very uneasy right now. Don't ask for it by drawing a “no” conclusion. Try asking “help me.”
Please make good use of your husband and spoil him well. I think it will naturally change so that it creates an environment where you can feel safe.

You may have various problems even after giving birth, but please talk to them again. Ultimately, if you can get to the point where you can accept your husband or parents-in-law without putting up with it, I think you'll be able to live a safe life. To be in that situation, learn Zen. There is Zen that can be saved.

It is said that it will be a caesarean section, but if that is the case, I think the delivery date will be scheduled.
You don't have to have noisy parents-in-law.
It would be nice if I could make arrangements for hospitalization, so it's fine as long as I have a husband.

Pessimistic people may irritate those around them.
It's natural to have anxiety, but there are times when anxiety hits you and there's nothing you can do about it.
After all, you won't know until that time.
People who are anxious only think because they “don't understand.”
There is a possibility that people with a personality that “I don't know” and can't help thinking now will get upset and go on a rant when hit by such vague anxiety.
So there's no need to take those rants seriously as they say.
My husband should also do what needs to be done when the time is right.
If you're worried, why don't you ask your husband from the public health nurse in charge of pregnant women at the government office or your attending physician?
It's stressful even when you're worried in your head. Why don't you try moving concretely?

It's an answer that won't catch your ears or eyes.

Or rather, you already have other people's words
Since it hasn't arrived, it doesn't even mean this Hasunoha
It's probably just a place to complain.

Still, I think that's fine for Hasunoha.

What I'm worried about is hearing other people's voices like that
It's about a child you raise if you don't have one.

I'm very, very worried.

I'm sure when you raise a child
Husbands and fathers-in-law have various responsibilities
Train yourself and stand in a position where you feel sorry for yourself
It's probably about raising children.
No, it might change once you're born.

Maybe it's already about kids too
It's not that bad, is it?

Inside your child's tummy
Can't you hear “this”? You might not hear it.

But this is left to you.

You are dissatisfied with your surroundings and use foul language
Every time you complain, your heart gets dirty.

That dirt will hurt you as it is.
That wound will go directly to your child,
It is transmitted as pain.

What you are there right now is
It's the result you wanted.
You wouldn't want to admit it.
But that's a fact and a reality.

Then the image of living powerfully in that reality,
Having a heart is good for children.
It will strengthen your child's mind.

Before my father-in-law curses my husband
The first thing to do is polish yourself.

Good luck to you, good luck. Gassho

I understand the feeling.
This is my first time giving birth in a little while, so I want them to respect them and take care of them. Well, they are the ones who practice delicacies. I sympathize with you.
From here on, it's not sympathy, but a dojo.
You say people are people and others say others, but all humans are just doing their own thing.
Even if it's typhoon damage or floods, everyone is full of their own work, such as treating their own teeth and making today's menu, it's like a human being.
I think it would be a good idea to really just do your own thing without imposing your ideals on people too much.
“You may think that this boy like Tange always says tough things to me without words of comfort, so you probably won't believe my opinions (laughs), but I always intend to present advice that will make you feel better.
If you say ❝ this guy can't listen ❞, it's just like painting your own color on your opponent. I want people like that to see the movement of their mind when coloring and painting.
Putting critical paint on danna and family and looking through it is the personal opinion, opinion, soliloquy opinion, and toxic opinion that should be changed the most in Buddhism, isn't it?
Why are you always blaming people without facing it?
Why can't you face the fact that there are no external points to review, and that they only have unique opinions, opinions, and toxic opinions that make you think that way in the first place?
I'm also the one who makes the other person a problem.
So really (not in a cool sense) try just doing your own thing.
I'm the one who makes the other person a problem, so stop that.
Don't seek high ideals from your opponent or clash strongly against your own rules.
If there's something I want people to understand, I'll tell them smoothly.
Avoid backlash, confrontation, and problematization.
Doing so also leads to the greatest peace of mind for the baby.
I pray that you will have a peaceful time.
I'm definitely not blaming Namu-san.
Of course, I also understand very well that Danna is cold.
Let's focus on our inner feelings, not the outside.
“Why do I attract people to this extent and make them a problem within myself, and suffer even when I'm alone and have no partner? Wouldn't it be better to do something about this kind of way of thinking?”