greets

Hello.

Certainly, the etymology of “greeting” is in Buddhism, and the greeting “push open,” and the greeting is “approach,” and it refers to a serious exchange where the master infers the depth of the disciple's heart, and the disciple presses the master to respond.
They probably guessed from the content of the question and looked up the meaning of “greeting.”

However, the “greeting” currently used doesn't have the fearful meaning of “getting close to the other person.”
It's like touching someone's heart a little bit, isn't it?

Greetings are the lubricant for relationships. Let's keep saying hello from now on. Of course, smile.

If so, why don't you open your heart and accept the other person just the way they are?

Approach the other person with an open mind (in the sense of conveying everything you think?) It's pretty difficult, isn't it? Even if you put this thought into words and conveyed it to the other party, there are definitely times when all of them will be conveyed. I feel that there are many misunderstandings and insufficient understanding when checking, even if we assume that they are being conveyed to each other. But the important thing is to tell it nonetheless. And since they have an open mind, they're probably really worried about that person and trying to tell them about it. Opening your heart means showing your true intentions to the other person, so you trust them a lot, and you definitely want to tell them even if it's disadvantageous to you. Of course, I think it's easier to convey if you treat them with an open mind, but in order to be more easily conveyed, isn't it necessary to repeatedly convey what they are really worried about without blurring through words and actions? That takes time, patience, and a relationship, though. If your enthusiasm for that partner is conveyed, I think the other person will open their heart little by little. Of course, it's just about respecting the other person, and if you don't have a desire to understand them yourself, it's just imposition.