I'm having trouble with my pet's castration surgery
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Currently, I live with my 2 cats at my parents' house.
I'm planning to have my cat neutered this time,
I'm suffering a lot because of that.
My parents didn't seem to want to do much about the surgery itself, but I
The stance was that I didn't want to do it, but I thought it would be better.
However, it's a very selfish story, but once surgery is decided,
I always feel sorry or unfortunate for cats in my daily life
I can't stop, and it's painful.
Cats are really attached to me, and when I watch how healthy they are,
It makes me cry, thinking that I would do such a terrible thing to you.
The reason for surgery is, after all, to make it easier for us to keep.
It may be absolutely necessary in order for people to live in a human society...
If you feel like making this child happy for the rest of your life instead of doing such terrible things to the cat, you may be prepared, but I myself am irresponsible and cannot live together until the cat dies in the future.
This is because we will have to stand on our own before long.
It's painful to feel guilty about recommending castration surgery even though I can't do anything for them.
However, the reason we recommended surgery was that we just wanted to have fun
Without it, I also wish my parents and the two cats could get along even a little bit.
I'm sorry. It's a selfish feeling, but I really wanted to spit it out.
How can I come to terms with this painful feeling?
Sorry for this very difficult question to answer.
