hasunoha

I don't want to go to school

This is my third year of high school. It's a commercial high school.
I have a friend who has been eating together for 3 years and has always gone home together.
I am a total of 3 people eating the meal.
I'm going to Disney for off-campus HR at the end of this month. I always ate together, so I thought we'd go together. When I asked if they were going to Disneyland or DisneySea one day, they didn't answer that, and they changed the story.
I had to decide between land and sea that day, so I was impatient, but my teacher told me that I could change it right away, so I chose sea. When I asked my friend which one I chose on LINE, they said Land.
Why didn't you answer which way I was going? I mean, I didn't promise. I was told. I couldn't say anything.
When asked which one they chose, they chose sea, but they said they would make land.
The reason for changing to land is that children from club activities will go with them. Even when we changed to land, the kid we ate with had a disgusting face.
Recently, as always, I go to my friend's place during recess, but they ignore me even when I talk to them. Other than that, to the kids we've gone out and played with until now, “What? what?” It makes it cold, etc.
I don't like that, so recently I stopped going to my friends during my break.
The children I want to do at Disneyland together have been decided, but I don't want to go there because I don't have any children to go with until I go.
I've asked a lot of friends, but since they're all sea, the path is different.
What should I do? I don't want to go!
Even though it's not fun, it's not fun even if you go.
What should I do until graduation, not just Disney?
By the way, I don't have any friends in class. Now that I've joined the group, I'm worried about the way people around me look at me. I don't even want to join the group.

5 Zen Responses

Now it's time to enjoy

I read it.
is that so... Why did you feel that way with your friends?
I think there's a reason.
Wouldn't it be okay to ask them why they have such an attitude?
Apart from good and bad, there must be something to say.
I think it's a good idea to think about how you face each other for that reason.
Also, don't hesitate to talk to your homeroom teacher if it's a completely unreasonable reason or act of bullying, etc. Also, please talk to your parents.

Please also ask for a firm and fair response from you.

As for going to Land and Sea, please go and experience the many attractions.
It's certainly fun to go with friends, but it's also fun to go alone.

Personally, I like Star Tours, so there was a time when I rode an attraction 10 times to my heart's content and experienced it.
After that, I would definitely recommend a jungle cruise.
I work hard to explore by paddling oars with the people around me, but since I get pretty sweaty, I can enjoy getting along well with the people next to me without knowing it.
There may be new encounters.
So in order to master both Land and Sea, there are parts that you don't understand until you ride alone.

Your life still has a long way to go.
There will always be a wonderful relationship with you, and there will come a time when you can go around land and sea slowly and happily with that person.
It's fine. From now on, you'll be able to enjoy Land and Sea again and again, so don't be discouraged.

And your high school life will soon be over.
Whether I cry or laugh, it's still half a year. So I'm not particularly pessimistic.
And from now on, you will take another step in your life.

I sincerely pray that you will be blessed with wonderful encounters in the future and that you will grow heartily and healthily with all of you with an honest feeling.

And I support you from the bottom of my heart.

Instead of looking for friends, become a person desired by friends.

Hello Takoyaki-san.

Things aren't going well with my friends, and I don't want to go to DisneySea alone.
Wow. As a Disney nerd, I want to go alone. I like watching and having fun without being bothered by anyone (laughs). It's fun for everyone to go to Disneyland, but it's even more fun to go alone. That's how the founder Walt Disney made it. “What kind of amusement park can we create an amusement park where everyone can come and have fun, both adults and one person?” When the other friends said, “There's no way such an amusement park could be built,” Walt was left out of his group by everyone and kicked out of Disney, which he made himself. But he thought he would make his dream come true even when he was alone, so he immersed himself in designing an amusement park that had never been seen before.
My younger brother Roy Disney was the first person to understand Walt, who happily talks about it even in his reckless dreams, and the person who became his companion and supported me. Then, there were many supporters, and Disneyland opened in 1955. Then, children and adults from all over the world gather under Walt, who was alone.

Friends aren't what you're looking for. Please be someone that Takoyaki-san herself would like to be your friend. There are plenty of ways to do that at Disneyland Sea. It's a great opportunity if you're alone, so there are lots of books like “The Secret of the Disneyland Sea,” so why not read them, go on a field tour, and look at them from the standpoint of learning about actual production? Then you should learn lots of ways to be liked by your friends.
That's how I've learned too (laughs). Actually, I just want to go and tell them about it (laughs). My room is decorated with a California Disneyland map poster and Walt Disney's signature. I want to be someone who can give joy to people like Walt.

By all means, let's join Takoyaki-san and become someone who thinks it's fun to interact with Takoyaki-san. Then you can do more and more friends without asking for them. If you learn anything from Disneyland Sea, please let me know too. Then I'm a Disney friend too (laughs). Gassho

Good evening.

I don't know why, but I got into trouble.
I don't think I would force myself to go to Disneyland. It's not a place to go without making a boring face. One option is not to go.

As for school, one option is not going to school anymore. I can get a high school graduate qualification in just six months. It's also a good idea to talk to the school and think about the best method together.

Furthermore, this is not an “escape,” but a “dodge.” You don't have to be cowardly.

The best thing is to understand each other and have a fun trip and school life, but if it's hard, I don't think you can overdo it.

I know there are a lot of painful things.

The fact that my friend I was eating with suddenly had a cold attitude
It's the hardest, isn't it? I don't like it.

I want you to tell me why, but if you don't have the courage to listen, do it with friends in club activities
It's about enjoying Disney.
They may not be happy with you, but for your friends
Wouldn't it be fun to be with you?

This is a monk consultation site, so just a few words from the world of Buddhism
I'll introduce it.
Buddha said, “Let's always attract (our partner) to ourselves and do good things,
They say, “Let's not do anything bad.”

The part where you leave the good and bad things behind and apply them to yourself
I think it's the most important thing.

When I touched the heart of the friend I was with to my body,

Or give yourself the heart of a friend in a club activity going to Disney
When I saw it,

I wonder if “what should I do” will be born within you
I'm thinking.

Becoming an adult and suddenly getting along well with friends you once had a fight and break up with
It's there.

This may be a difficult time for both of us.
But someday, when the time comes when you guys can talk with a smile again,
I believe it.

To you, to your friends, bye, bye. Gassho

Operation Hidden Mickey

My parents' house is Disneyland in Saitama Prefecture.
There is a Mickey & Minnie Mouse parade every day.
Although some people call him Hidden Mickey.
Donald Duck is also in the garden. 🐓🐔
If you like, come and visit us sometime and look for Hidden Mickey 🐭.
Mickey, who lives in our house, is pretty small. It's a small world ♡
While my mother was taming the cat 🙀 that had been abandoned at the temple, Mickey disappeared. It is now called a lost paradise. Mickey, which was often picked up by cats, was placed in the hallway. 👼
Now, on behalf of the spirits in Mouse Land (that's a different name) that were destroyed by such cats, I'm talking about mice. 🐭
“Even though it's not fun, it's not fun to go. ”
“Now that I've joined the group, I'm worried about the way people around me look at me. I don't even want to join the group.”
what are you saying? It would be nice if you were more honest. 🐁
We, the real Prince Mickey Nez, are hated in the human world, so now you know. Oh, heartless.
Elsa also sings “I'll show you the way it is ♪,” but when we, Lord Nezu, exposed his real appearance as it is, the mouse is targeted by vermin exterminators in Tokyo. 🐀
Your current feelings are probably the same, but when it comes to friend relationships, it's also important that we, Lord Nez, treat them by changing characters so they look like Mickey, so I'm fine.
I'll tell you one good method, Chu.
The main actors at Disneyland are not us, but the guests, so I'm glad.
It's Mickey's job to bring flowers to everyone, so they can do it.
This is an important thing that is necessary even in the adult world.
Why don't you get rid of the “sense of leading role” just a little bit?
If I have a strong feeling that I am, everyone will run away.
It's a way of life where you let your partner carry flowers.
Try doing this. If that doesn't change your partner, it's just that they weren't suitable as your friend.
This is what a monk called Yoshihiro said.
“If I don't get along with the world, I can win by playing alone”
A real person isn't lonely. Those who graduated early, like kachimake, missing out, their own group, or the other group won. A true friend is someone who doesn't have that kind of sense and understanding. Tit, let's hide my sense of leading role and turn it into Mickey.