About words for 2 years and 11 months

I have a boy who will soon be 3 years old!
About speech delays and more.
Speak in two or three language sentences. Everyday conversation is being formed little by little [eat?] [Aren't you going to eat?] Even when asked, when I was there, I was able to clearly answer [I'm going to eat], and [where would you like to go?] [Park]. You can do it if it's a simple conversation like that.
What color do you like? Like it as it is
how old? It's ⚪⚪. [name]
It's so messed up that I can't say it.

I hear 3 years old is a guide, but is there a delay in not being able to answer properly?

Also, when you throw a toy and break it, you cry when you scold them harshly (get scolded), and do you know why they are scolded? I feel it!
Throw it, no good! Even so, they only said dislike it and didn't like it, and they didn't listen to me at all.
I feel like it's still difficult to say it.
For example, before entering a store such as a supermarket, you can understand things like [you can't run inside].
However, they answered [yeah] because they don't like being scolded when the conversation gets long, and they don't even understand the translation.

Also, I can't sit while reading picture books in a group.
Also, they almost never play with their hands or do gymnastic dancing in groups!
Other moving ball games and sandbox games can be fun in groups while fighting, but when it's time to play with hands and exercise, they run around.
Playing with hands at home is something you can do after birth
They never did it from beginning to end of a song.
Sometimes I do a part of it or imitate only what I like about exercises.

I only imitate what my friends and siblings are doing in other games!

I'm in rehabilitation to be able to make up for irregularities, but yesterday, the 8th time, I was able to sit on a chair for 20 minutes for the first time and work on it!
My teacher told me that my comprehension was solid.

I'll soon be 3 years old, so I'm feeling worried, but is it okay if I don't be impatient? Should I go to a more specialized agency?

4 Zen Responses

Thank you for your consultation

Good morning. Thank you for your consultation.
You care about your child, and you're very worried. My mother's love comes through.

Now, as for the details of the consultation, if you are concerned, I think you should go to a specialized agency.

Even if you get answers with serious amateur knowledge here, you'll just be mischievous and uneasy.
(Some monks are qualified and may be able to answer based on their specialized knowledge...)

At the age of three, it might be a good idea to have them take a proper look.

Of course, mothers are worried about their children. For me, my mother is worried too. Please don't overdo it and don't hold it. Let's rely on the hands and specialized agencies around us and make use of them.

Please feel free to contact us if your mother has any concerns or concerns, not limited to this one.
However, I think it would be better to ask a specialist for opinions on this matter.

Hello.

I see. It's good if the kid seems to be doing well. On the other hand, you feel uneasy about your child's growth. There are individual differences in human growth, so there is no point in comparing them with guidelines or surroundings. Let's rejoice at what your child did, and praise them again.
After that, I think it's a good idea to talk to your doctor if you have any concerns about growth.

I pray that your child will grow freely.

An episode of Fujii Sota shogi's childhood

Mr. Fururu

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

If you compare it to the growth of the children around you no matter what, I know there are things you may be worried about.

It is unavoidable that people inevitably worry about things they can't do, but while making up for what can be made up for through rehabilitation activities, I think the number of things that can be done will definitely increase one by one as far as I can see the content.

Since children have their own growth, interests, and preferences, parents don't get too caught up in the mold, and while supporting what they can't do, they can also honestly and gladly praise them and watch over their growth, as Kōzen-sama said.

The other day, I watched NHK feature Fujii Sota, a professional shogi player who broke the official game winning streak, and it seems that her mother watched over what Sota was passionate about and concentrated on when she was young without disturbing her, even for hours. It was introduced that it might have had a big impact on eventually becoming a shogi talent.

From a parent's point of view, I thought “such a thing...” without permission and made them quit, so I thought for a moment that they must not take away their child's potential.

If possible, along with supporting what they can't do, I would also like to support them so that they can steadily develop what they are good at.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

Talk to the public health nurse at the government office

After all, I think it's best to consult an expert.

Children's comprehension isn't as solid as adults think.
Always be specific when giving instructions.

First, explain it in words, and then have the person repeat it in words.
Next, after the mother demonstrated and showed it,
I'll let him do it himself.

If you don't go that far, your child won't be able to understand it.

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