I would like to express my deepest condolences to those who died in this painful incident. Gassho
There's something I've been curious about ever since I heard the news. It stopped on December 4 of last year, but there is an account that continued to tweet with the concept of “a society where people who want to die die.” It still has 1,435 followers. I wonder if it's really okay to call the incident in Zama City “special”... What if it's just that there were no precedents that have come to light, and it's already no longer special...
This may be an extreme example, but during the Sengoku period, people carried it around while protecting it so that they wouldn't be taken over if they raised the first rank on the battlefield. When I brought it back, the women in the house now wash the first class thoroughly, apply black teeth, and apply makeup. That's how they make them look like they're top ranked high (with high rewards).
People can also get used to such an environment.
So surely people who have left normal will not do that, and if the conditions leading up to that point are in place, everyone will be able to do it.
In Buddhism, we believe that “people are a group of many causes and factors.” This is called a cause of cause and effect, or it's all empty.
There is often an expression of “harboring darkness,” but in terms of Buddhism, the essence of that person was not darkness, and it means that the majority of what was sprinkled by people around them or what they sifted through themselves was darkness. Conversely, it also means that you can change now depending on the environment you choose from now on. That's because everything is impermanent.
At such times, regulating oneself is not only about facing one's own weakness of heart, but also about thinking carefully about what kind of environment you put yourself in.
That said, if you start swinging likes and dislikes very rarely, it will increase your suffering, but if you are clearly only being affected negatively, it is also important to keep a “moderate” distance. Even if it's a family. Also, searching for a better relationship, and not letting the past evaporate (not reversing past bad environments in your heart)... these are the keys to leaving the darkness.
Until it leads to an incident like that, you can't find a good relationship no matter how you look for it... I want to change the world like that.
I hope Masamasa's surroundings and this society will be filled with encounters where we can give each other vitality to live... Gassho