Effects of suicide and countermeasures

I read your consultation.
You're thinking a lot about suicide, aren't you?

Now, “committing suicide without causing trouble” is probably an impossible story. Since you cannot dispose of your own body yourself, you will always be bothered by people. If it is a suicide, you can imagine that the psychological burden on those dealing with it will be heavier than when that is not the case.

However, if someone stops you from committing suicide, it's not because it's annoying. I don't want them to commit suicide, so I stopped it.
On the other hand, from your point of view, it would be an annoying story if you really wanted to commit suicide.

Have you noticed?

People cause trouble to each other. They continue to cause trouble from birth until death. There's no such thing as not being helped by someone or something.

So instead of causing trouble, let's do our best to be forgiven even if you cause trouble, or to be able to give something back, or be grateful to the fullest.

If you want to do it, you won't fall into arrogance if you don't cause trouble, and have the humility that you can't help but cause trouble no matter what.

If that's the case, let's express our “thanks so far” as you said. Also, let's talk about “the circumstances so far.” The judgment that led to your decision to commit suicide is reasonable for those listening to the story, and if it makes you think that there is no other way, that person will not be able to blame your judgment even though they are sad, frustrated, lonely, and helpless.
And now that they've listened to the story, let's listen to the other one too.

In Buddhism, there is a path of self-interest and altruism (a balance between for me and for you) that doesn't end up being a nuisance even if you cause trouble there.

At that time, everyone wants you to notice. If it's good to cause trouble to die, then it's okay to live by causing trouble. There are also people who are happy to be bothered. It's also annoying that only you decide whether it's just a nuisance or not.

Well, this is also related.

Why don't you talk about why people think about suicide in the next question? huh? is that me? annoying? That's ridiculous. I do it because I like it. This is how I listen to the story because I like it.

Please let me cause you my trouble.

Hello.

First of all, “after asking questions in hasunoha, suicide” will surely appear in newspapers and TV. Hasunoha will be greatly affected. Please let me do some more work here.
Besides, you may be feeling alone right now, but in fact, you are surrounded by many relationships. It's just that I'm not aware of it. It's impossible to “not cause trouble” to the relationship that surrounds you.

Let's eat something warm today and get a good night's sleep.

Please ask a new question and tell us why you felt that way.

I read it.
In general, if you commit suicide, I don't think it will cause trouble.
If you commit suicide, an autopsy will be carried out by the police, and at the same time, your relatives will verify your identity and check your situation. In other words, it will be troublesome for many people. Furthermore, it will leave deep scars and marks on the hearts of many people. It's a wound that won't go away easily. Furthermore, there is a possibility that this chain will occur.
Even if words of thanks are left, they will be left as a deep wound and will bring a sense of regret to many people.

Whether they have words or not, deep questions and regrets remain for the people they have relationships with, and scars that will last a lifetime remain in each person's life.

Life was given through relationships with various people and things. So even if it's my own life, it's not just my own. It exists among many connections. So it's important.

I sincerely hope that you not only think about yourself, but also calm down, take a look around, and look back at your existence.

Kobayashi-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Instead of talking about “the effects and countermeasures of suicide,” I hope you can talk about the Buddha.

Being grateful means conveying the feeling of “thank you” to the other person, and the original etymology of “thank you” is the Buddhist term “thank you.”

I am “thankful” to be born into this world.

For example, as an analogy for a “blind turtle driftwood,” “it is difficult for an old blind turtle living in the ocean to be born as a human to the extent that when it floats up to the surface of the sea once every 100 years, it is so difficult to be born as a human being to the extent that it plunges into a hole in a floating tree with a hole in it,” so “it's difficult to have.”

Also, I am even more “thankful” to be able to encounter Buddha's teachings as a law to eliminate hesitation and suffering.

Even if you were born as a human being, if it were a world without the Buddha's teachings, it would be just like being born into a completely dark world. I don't understand anything, I'm lost and just reincarnated through suffering, and I can't find anything to rely on... it's scary just to think about it...

That darkness is called ignorance (fundamental ignorance) in Buddhism, and the light that clears up the darkness of ignorance is truly Buddhism.

This is a world where you can be born as a human being, and there are lights that illuminate the darkness of ignorance.

By all means, I would like you to take a look at that light too.

Also, if you could eventually turn it into a light that illuminates the dark road yourself, I would be even more “grateful.”

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho