What are communication abilities used in society?

I think it's also interesting.
So, I dare to write it while guessing “the intention and circumstances of listening here.”
Kyobi, I think “communication skills” are probably always mentioned in employment support. It's probably not the first time I've heard it since I went to an interview. I don't know what it is, but being told to “raise it” is the opposite of “being evaluated as low”?
But it didn't come right to you. I thought “it's impossible,” so I don't know “what kind of state or attitude is “highly communicative.” I wasn't taught in class either. I wonder if the sense of incongruity or bad mood comes from such “I don't understand.” They say they are graduate students, but if they are in science, they probably came with the idea that “ideas and experimental results are everything,” and they probably want to compete with their own “achievements” anyway, so it's a request from a completely different angle. I wonder if that is the reason why the sentences somehow make you feel resentful?
So, something that should be searched or asked as a business term came here. Probably because there's something that doesn't make sense.
The above is a selfish deduction, but as a monk, I'm going to write what I keep in mind in “communication.” That being said, there's no other Buddhist backing.
Number one, don't forget that it's “playing catch.” Often, there are people who speak unilaterally, but you have to talk while watching the other person's reaction. Check if the other party is in a state where they can “receive it.” When it doesn't work, it's half my fault.
Next, be aware of gender differences. It's completely different, so the way we talk is. It's fine if it's between men, but women talk to each other. If you don't correct the trajectory or put it together properly, you won't be able to keep up with this one, and the capacity is small.
After that, I check from time to time to see if my “summary/understanding” is correct. “Is this what it is? Isn't that right?” Listen to it. There is a tendency to want to incorporate it into a story you know, so be careful about that.

What you can see when entering a company is probably the third point of “not making selfish interpretations.” If you're a rookie, the first thing to do is “listen properly.” I think I'll come up with my own ideas after they've been made.
Oh, it's starting to look like Zen. “Facts are facts. “I don't make selfish interpretations or evaluations.”

In terms of psychology, it seems that leadership has two functions.
Performance function (P) and maintenance function (M).
The former is a function that makes you produce results when working in an organization. The latter feels like a function that maintains an organization by making adjustments between members of the organization.
Even if you blackmail your subordinates with power harassment and make them work like chariots and horses to achieve results, it's no good if your subordinates don't like it and they all quit, so as a company, you should want human resources that combine both functions.
There is probably a deep relationship between such leadership techniques and “communication skills.”
If you're an old-fashioned craftsman, you can just use P functions, but in the case of companies, power harassment, sexual harassment, misconduct, and blackmail (overwork) are fatal, so leader candidates who successfully bring out the abilities of employees without using such ridiculous methods will probably come in handy.
It can also be said that it is the ability to connect people without misunderstanding them.

Good evening.
I'm Yuki Shizuku, a female professional wrestler and counselor apprentice monk. It's a messy title like Tuna Sanmai, a Western food specialty store in Chinatown.
In conclusion, it is “communication = attitude of acceptance.”

Since Mappie is a graduate student, she's probably studied hard and worked hard until now.
What is communication ability because she is such a hardworking and serious Mappy? Even though they explore, they don't produce results in proportion to effort like academics, and they don't even have books, so I think they feel frustrated and frustrated there.

However, I think it's wonderful that Mappie is seriously thinking and worrying about what people have pointed out.

This is counseling knowledge, but it can also be fully used for communication, so if you like my method, please put it into practice and refer to it.
There's an image of communication skills as saying words and sayings you've heard in your heart.
That used to be the case for me too.
However, conversation and communication are about listening.
For example, let's say I'm having tea with Mappie somewhere
What would you think if you were expressionless and said “heh” without nodding?
What would you think if they only used proverbs?

On the other hand, why don't you nod and hit the person you're talking to in a sad way with an expression that shares your sorrow?
To the person I was talking about the painful story, “You were suffering so much. That was hard.” If I had to say that, what would the other person think?
That person who had a hard time will say more and more words, then the conversation will expand. Hey, can't we communicate?

You don't have to change your values, and you don't have to kill your sense of ethics.

Tell them that you think this is what you think. That was a ○○ feeling.
In other words, please accept the other person and empathize with their feelings. Stand on the opponent's axis.

People are really happy to be accepted.

Isn't there such an element in Buddhism?

Well, at least girls are weak against men who sympathize with their feelings (lol)

It doesn't matter if it's someone close to you or someone passing by, so please listen to it, accept it, and empathize with it.

I hope Mappie brings lots of smiles.

You're right ('▽ `*) That's right. I agree with you.
Hi! hello!
My name is Awana Tei Q Hiya - Tange from Saitama Prefecture Yes-Man Training Club.
For now, it's OK, OK, OK if you say hi (Ω) in most situations. (Pontka)
If you watch, listen, and talk about communication (Ω) OK, OK. (Honma Ka) That's it.
Because what else is there? Zen sees things simply.
It's not complicated by ideas.
If you don't have that, even if you buy a communication book without this, you hardly use it in practice.
No matter how far you go, you can see with your eyes, listen with your ears, and speak with your mouth. Kihon is there.
The expression, attitude, attitude, attitude, and attitude are good to look and feel; they smile; honestly hi; certainly, well, it's definitely more than enough with Tori who says it.
At the crazy military training dojo I was at, I was only able to say hi or yes to the freshly entered paper.
Hi and yes today! That's it. There is no NO.
Nystos! Nice Yoisho! Nice drummer!
Yes, BOSS!
Sometimes things go more smoothly that way.
Yes to all with a smile! “Yes! Takasu Clinic!!”
As expected, I think there is resistance to...
Actually, that's where your problem lies.
“BUT, BUT, BAT, BUT.”
repulsion, repulsion, resistance.
People who do this a lot aren't good at communicating.
A conversation isn't a battle, is it?
Even if it's a friend, that kind of person won't keep up the conversation.
Even if it's a lie, if you can't put down one cushion, you'll be playing baseball through communication called playing catch. Kakin. ⚾
In order to accept the other person's words, please reply “nice YES” to my answer this time.
It wouldn't be fun if everything was YES. But even so, it's important to have a conversation that starts with YES first. My beginning was positive, and I started.
If you say, “What are you saying? If you say, “That's crazy,” I think you'll feel uncomfortable, and you'll feel resistance.
I think it's a good idea to acquire skills that won't hurt or hurt your opponents. (^<^)

You may hear the words “ability to listen,” “ability to seize,” and “read the air.”
It's simple, but it's difficult, isn't it?

However, when it comes to whether they didn't learn it at school, I don't think that's the case.
I think “Japanese” classes and tests were there to learn that kind of thing.
This is something I also realized after graduation.

When I was a salaryman, I was in a sales position.
You might think that this is an industry where you can't work without communication skills,
When I first joined the company, I sometimes felt uneasy about what I could do.

If you've already finished your job hunting, I'm sure you've decided to get a job somewhere.
What is “communication ability used in society”
Every day, as I clear the issues in front of me and accumulate work I can do,
It's something I've been wearing before I know it.

If you put it into plain sentences, within me
“Ability to replace words said by customers and supervisors with your own words and further convey them to others”
I think it will be.
However, when I say “ability,” I think it's a special ability like “Yuwami Crest (stand),” so I'm afraid,
At first, “try cheerfully to understand what customers and bosses are saying”
Maybe it's a good idea to start at that point.

Also, like “Saint Seiya (Saint),” try not to repeat the same mistake twice,
Please have a fun working life.