I want to be invited but I'm not invited

Good morning. I feel like “it's a one-sided relationship.” Could it be that the same thing has happened in the past in your life up until now? They say “always...” Your relationship with your parents. The relationship between you and your husband (boyfriend). My friend from when I was single. Senpai juniors, superiors and subordinates. Do you have any idea?
In other words, were you used to or were you looking for “one-sided relationships”? I feel it. Specifically, “I've never had a fight with my parents, maybe I haven't been able to leave my parents,” “I always hated going on dates if I hadn't invited them,” “I like ranking which one is fashionable, etc.”

So, since you've been in one-sided relationships in the past (because there are some merits), you may be concerned about that.
Or maybe they really think “you don't like it” at a young age. I can't understand that from this “question” sentence.

Well, that's all I can guess. This is my selfish story. Humans say, “Why? why?” I want to ask, so for now, “is this possible?” and.

but If you go to the park as a parent,

If children seem to be having fun and are growing up healthy, isn't that fine? “This mom doesn't like this place, right?” even if we both have a little bit of it.

For a while, it's easier to think that you're not the protagonist. Rather than saying “I am Doko,” “What is important for children?” It is better to prioritize.
In other words, it means that if you can grow up and raise children well, then you can return to the leading role in your own life as a “person who has gone through raising children.”

I think the reason for this question is that the kid always says, “It's just my house all the time.” I think it's a good thing for a mother to see her seriously trying to respond to that.
But actually, children's behavior is trial and error. It's hard to guess. When I was told what I felt was faint, I said, “Gavin! You'll be upset, saying, “That's true after all (there's an echo),” but at that time, you ask yourself again. “The important thing is, isn't it fun to play?” How are the expressions of your child and the mothers around you? What kind of expressions are the children playing with, and what are the children around them? Don't overlook that.

Many mothers are busy with everyday cleaning and laundry, preparing meals, picking up and dropping off their children, etc., and I don't think they have room to invite someone or invite them to play. You may be happy that an opportunity has arisen because you invited me.

It's a bad language, but I think it's easier to treat people without being too clumsy and have enough room to not have friends. Rather than making friends, it's probably something you can do if you naturally seek them.

It's not good to ask for too much from your partner. It makes me feel heavy, and above all, I just make myself suffer.
Instead of looking at things by applying those around you to your own ideals, I think it is necessary to simply look at people as they are without imposition or prejudice.

At least, that's not because they don't like it.

The world is connected by relationships, so
Everyone is “one of others.”

“One among others” talk to each other about something,
I want you to “understand” what you are! When that desire was born,
I think you'll become a special friend with that person.
In other words, they become friends.

At that time, I want you to “understand” that person too! I think so.
A friend you can talk to about anything isn't that easy,
If you spend your time chewing on the happiness in front of you without being impatient,
Before I knew it, I think we made friends that we spent more and more time together.

Isn't that because they're looking for something in return?
Give and take is an idea.
Since they try to do it based on that idea, dissatisfaction remains when they don't come back.
You can keep going with your life and leave it up.
More than that, what are they doing there?
Rather than that, the real sharing between humans that takes place there should be called a memorial service.
Memorial services aren't just for those who have died. Rather, it is something we should do when we are alive.
This is because the Buddha offered a memorial service to everyone without sparing or giving anything in return for the best of enlightenment, peace, and salvation from suffering.
That's fine.
I don't expect anything in return either. If it's something I can get, I'll get it (laughs)
There was no one in particular who gave it to me.
It seems to be the 1434 person who answered this question, but even so, it falls far short of the feats of the master, monk, and Buddha, whom I respect.
Let's think that getting along with someone in search of a second one for something is already there, and I lost sight of that person at that time. Life is a once-in-a-lifetime event. All you have to do is face it with the person who invited you and come, whether or not, after that, and talk once in a lifetime.