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Would it be bothersome if I conveyed my thoughts

There is a monk I'm interested in.

I'm curious about the monk I spoke with when I visited a temple to pray and was given a goshuin. There was also a little common topic, and I felt a connection without permission. It just makes me think.

After that, when I contacted the temple by email about the event, that person happened to reply. Naturally, the other party has a work address, so we don't communicate more than necessary.

Since then, I've been going to that temple to pray several times, but the number of monks is large, and there aren't many opportunities to talk, so I'm going overseas for 1 year from next year.

I would like to let you know that I would like to get in touch with you, but I feel sorry for both the temple and the monk that they think they are praying for that monk, and I've only met him once in the first place.

What do you think when people suddenly say they want to get in touch, even if they don't go so far as to express their thoughts? What would you think if all of a sudden you were told that?

There are also people who have asked similar questions, so please let us know what you think. I'm sorry for the duplicate content.
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5 Zen Responses

only once.

But it somehow came right. Well then, don't hesitate.
But I guess I treated him as a job too, so don't forget that first. Even if I tell you something, there's nothing special about it if you keep general social common sense.
For example, avoid talking to him when he is at the counter and causing trouble to other worshipers.
Also, of course, it is possible that you have a girlfriend or are married, or that you are celibate, vegetarian, religious nerd, eldest son, second son, third son, Bon Bon Bon, from home, and don't think up to your parents (and many others).
In short, just saying “being a boy” means “not a special person.” If you're a Hasunoha reader, I'm sure you know it.

“Aim for him, then are you bothered?” It seems that they are worried, but as a temple, I think, “I am thankful that he has a connection with my sect and Buddhism, even if I used him as a trigger.” it should be. I wonder if it isn't.
“Because I don't care about Buddhist teachings or anything!” If that's the case, I don't really recommend it. It's a pattern of “getting bored in 3 days” when things he cherishes (for the time being, probably) are passed.

It's not special

Monks are human too. Why don't you tell them that you want to be friends first? I don't know how to reply depending on the other person's monk's situation (having a girlfriend, having a wife, etc.), but if you don't tell them what you think, it won't be conveyed.
Please gather your courage and do your best.

An idol you can go see.

I think of monks as “idols you can go see.”
So, “I want to meet this monk!” The person who thought
You are very welcome to visit the temple for that person.

It depends on the monk's way of thinking,
I think I'm very happy to have fans.

If it means you want to move beyond that,
Even after coming back from overseas,
Wouldn't it be wise to meet up a few times before making a decision?
I'm sure that's the same for monks and other people.

I'm waiting for you ♡ ← (it's not Omee)

I was embarrassed that they thought about me so much...
('▽`*) Unfortunately, I'm already married and have children... (That's why it's not Ome)
huh? Isn't that me? Was that so... ↓ shun ('-ω-`)
Joking aside, I don't think it's Mewak when it comes to conveying my thoughts.
Damn it, monks really don't have many opportunities to meet women depending on the ascetic dojo, so
Even at the dojo where I and others were, they were even told, “Don't get married for 2 years after leaving.”
This is because it's an abstinent lifestyle with only men, so everyone seemed like pretty people and nice people, their eyes on choosing a partner were cloudy, and there were also many people who broke up after that (laughs).
It's been six months since I joined the dojo, and when I first went out into town, angels and celestial maidens walked around the town, and was it okay to watch them for free? So much so that I even thought.
In that sense, are monks aimed at? Maybe? Yo?
However, a monk's great wish is to first fulfill one's own path, Buddhism, as a monk.
To be free from all kinds of suffering and hardship. This is because you can't have a funeral or guide without fulfilling it. Anyone can do it from the standpoint of being a monk until they practice at an ascetic dojo, but whether or not I was really free from my own thoughts such as suffering, anger, and worry is whether I was able to truly become a full-fledged monk. If you put out too much ♡ from within that hasn't been done, you'll lose your way, so here's a good method.
“We'll see you again in a few years. We'll always get in touch, so until then, why don't you ask for it by saying, “Please be able to explain to me how humans can really overcome suffering and anger.”
If you do that, he too will feel a beautiful, beautiful, and mission to be begged as a monk, so I think he will work hard to seek and study Buddhism. The fact is that the majority of monks are chased only by memorizing manners and rituals at ascetic dojos, and there are many monks who just end up with that, so please try bumping around with such wishes.

If you're a normal monk, it's not bothersome at all.

hold on!!