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Ace should be a strong person, right?

To the boss in the same department
I haven't been well lately

Smiling in front of everyone
You're overdoing it, you know you know how to make it laugh
I cried when I was told

I switched right after that

My boss called me Ace before, and my employee told me
I've heard it
Then you always have to live up to expectations
I spent half a year thinking that I had to do my job and the work my colleagues asked me to do

Harassment from male colleagues
It was hard though...
I couldn't talk to anyone because I didn't want to worry about my surroundings
I ended up running for alcohol
Alcohol isn't just about work

So I'm saved by having this site

somewhat
I think my female boss has seen through me. Recently, they've been calling out to me.

Also, my boss and my female boss
The two of us often talk.

When I was my former boss, I never cried no matter how harshly I was scolded.

I cried before the transfer
It's only when you say good words.

I'm not an ace

Ace should be a strong person who doesn't cry, right?

4 Zen Responses

Stop once in a while

Good luck, don't you think?

Nobody is a strong person.

Stopping and crying are wonderful things.

Let me tell you just one thing.

There's a difference between trying hard and overdoing it.

You can't overdo it.

Please stop once in a while.

huh. Let's start with reading comprehension.

 Hello. There are lots of topics coming up for the end of the year!

First of all, I'm mistaken when it comes to “not crying = strong people.”
Strong people cry too. For example, tears of regret. For example, I was moved by a movie. with happy tears.

My impression is that “ace” is close to “being able to take care of the signboard.”
After searching for the time being, there are “main members,” “those who have achieved a certain level of results,” and “those who have scored the most points,” etc., but since supermarkets are not competitions, I think they have borrowed any of the above and used them. Actually, I don't know what kind of achievements you have achieved, but since you're young, I also feel like “Hope” is more comfortable.
Since it means “meeting expectations” and “doing my best at work when asked,” it is certain that “expectations are expected,” but “definitely Chocolat!” I'm guessing that's not enough...

So... I haven't cried until now, but I cried because “good words were said to me.” That was “you're overdoing it, isn't it?” so tears spilled out “I'm happy that my boss understood.”

If that's the case.
① You may be aware that “you are an ace.” And, “it's OK to be a crying ace”
② If it's clear (not necessarily you) who the “ace” is (it's not necessarily you), I think it's okay to hide it by saying “I'm not that kind of vessel.” (But the question of awareness is different. (It has nothing to do with the poster)
③ I'm sure it's true that your female boss “sees through” you (because I've written it many times), but can you see through “how” you are? I didn't know about this place before.
④ You don't have much material to think about. Aren't there more things happening every day? If you feel like that, you can find a lot of materials for thinking about things, such as the expressions and voices of people around you at work. There's no need to get past the praise you've received, but in fact, there may be seeds lurking in criticism directed at you and stories you don't want to hear that will lead to the next jump.

Somehow I'm trying to make it too difficult.

Whether you're called an ace, expected or not, that's a human thing.
If you're doing well, that's fine. It's OK to shed tears.
Whether people see through it or don't understand it, there's nothing wrong with it.
If you try to live a simple life without thinking about unnecessary things, I think there will be a surprisingly light and easy life.
Try your best at a supermarket job to the extent you can.
But don't hunt them down.

Is your boss's eye a hole?

No, my boss knows his point of view.
They say you're fit to be an ace because you're weak.

Abilities alone are not enough.
If someone who knows people's weaknesses is an ace
Others can be saved, right?