I don't have any friends

Good evening. I miss my friends. I was able to notice that as a good point. People who only have work on their mind don't notice that. You are in the first step of changing relationships. The first step usually starts with a sense of crisis. What's more, it's no good to have a dark sense of crisis. I have to have a proper sense of crisis.
It's quite difficult to face it. It's for everyone. Why is it difficult? This is because there is a certain merit in the current situation. In the previous question, it was commented “I'll go at my own pace,” but I presume that this is probably an advantage and a sense of crisis we should face.
Last time, I was probably able to avoid comparing myself to people around me by labeling myself as “I'm going at my own pace.” That's a good thing. Do what you can do with your own power without being impatient. That's because I can honestly affirm myself. However, everything is the same, and it is only a “for now” solution. Everything is impermanent.
If you stick to “I'll go at my own pace,” you don't need friends. I don't need a colleague. because it's self-contained. However, as long as we are in society, that is not the case. This time, I was aware of that, and a sense of crisis arose within yourself. I feel like this is healthy.
So what are we going to do. As is often said, the first thing I want to say is “aim to be a good listener.” Learn what others think is interesting. The world will expand.
what? I'm not interested. So what about books? I think there's an environment where it's pretty easy to meet people with minor, niche hobbies now. I hope I can meet someone to talk to there.
what? Don't like silly everyday conversations? Then let's look for male friends. As for conversation, they eat far less than women. They usually have ulterior motives, so when women talk about their inner world, there are probably a lot of men who get on board.
what? is that scary? Well, like this one, if you're lonely, you can post your lonely feelings on this hasunoha. There are monks here who are waiting, “I want to know what kind of people are in the world, and if I can, I want to be useful.”

Recently, I've started pressurization training and carbohydrate restrictions. After 3 months, I was able to see the muscles I lost 4 kilograms without difficulty.
Stop eating rice, bread, and wheat, and eat meat, fish, eggs, cheese, and mayonnaise to your heart's content.
I eat my stomach full, so there's no stress. Common sense up until now is just plain old. It's hard for anyone to understand.

Someone to talk to will show up sometime.
What are your minor hobbies?
I can't help but worry about it.

It's up to you to make friends. if you want it.
However, it's also not good to seek too much out of someone. It's also not good to put too much emphasis on your differences from your opponent and build a wall.
Even though our hobbies are different, we are human beings. You may not be able to get along well with anyone, but once you open your heart, you will unexpectedly become good friends.
Even if the clothes feel different or the things you like are different, I think you can make friends with more depth and a sense of security.
Wouldn't that be fine if you could have relationships on the spot, such as hobby friends, school friends, part-time friends, etc.

I'm trying, but co-workers aren't friends. But I'm not lonely. I have a few other friends and family.

Yesterday I met my best friend for the first time in a long time.
When I was in middle school, I was my best friend who played with me every day.
It was my first time in six months.
We are now 39 years old and we all have our own families.
It was about 5 hours since we met.
I don't think it will fit for a while.
No matter how close we are, I do it that often.
Your question is answered in the question.
There's probably something in the question where you confided in yourself.
That's the answer.
They actively work on their own.
Listening to the monk's story is no different if he is passive.
He had the courage to talk about himself. It's a great power.
Keep it up and talk to people you want to be friends with.
Every human being has weaknesses. It is possible to connect with that weakness.