If you are treated kindly, you will fall in love right away.

It's a romance consultation, but if you're kind to a man, you'll fall in love right away.
I'm hungry for love, or rather, I'm happy to be cared for, and even more! It's going to be like that.

The other person talks to me and the conversation is exciting, and they listen intently to my story, and that alone immediately makes me fall in love with them.

From the other person's point of view, maybe they're just following the minimum manners when talking to people.
But it makes me happy to think that they are listening to me and acknowledging my existence.

It's not that my family environment is bad; rather, I grew up receiving a lot of love from my parents and older sister.
But why do people fall in love just by being treated kindly?
I would like you to teach me if it's the right way to have a relationship as it is.

4 Zen Responses

The fun of romance

Whoever makes them fall in love wins.
But falling in love is stronger.

It's harder to ask for it.
Those who are sought are happier.

Happy/Love/Loving

Good morning. It's nice that there are so many seeds of happiness.
I'm just sorry, but it seems like they're still a beginner. Is it exciting for one particular person? Or maybe for multiple people at the same time?
If it's a specific person, it means they want to keep a warm eye on them, but the fact that the question was asked here probably makes them feel somewhat uncomfortable.
If you feel something in love (like) towards various people, it may be something called “in love with love.” Unlike men, women cannot “spread out” their DNA, so choosing a partner is naturally tough. Women have the right to choose. And that's not unfair at all.
So, if something that fulfills the purpose of “trying to leave one's own DNA” is called love, it's dangerous unless it's a “specific person.” Well, it seems that skilled creatures make good use of multiple males.
So, I'm happy, that's fine. Falling in love is fine. But if you call it love, there is only one partner. Being told that doesn't mean you have to go “I'm not in love, I'm disappointed.” You only have one body, so you'll be able to choose any one. However, as often mentioned in questions and answers, I don't recommend multiple simultaneous concurrent events at the same time.

Only if you know yourself who wants to be treated kindly

I know that I'm weak at being kind. That's a good thing.
However, it is also true that it clouds our eyes when it comes to discerning men and the world.
That person was kind to me, so I was taken over for a high-priced item, so that's not a story.
Let's identify our partner by something more certain than kindness rather than smiles.
Even people who scold harshly are affectionate.
Are you excited about the kindness of being gentle and not telling the truth?
Are you dismayed by the gentleness of lies that are told in order to drop you into the abyss with a gentle sound?
The truth is not outwardly kind.
The Buddha and the devil always look the same.
That's why it's so scary.
Don't live a sweet way of life where you get carried away by kindness!!
I'll say it harshly so you don't get bogged down. (. -`omega-)

Surprisingly, there are few people who aren't kind

A lot of people are kind. Especially if it's your first time meeting. Once you get used to it, you'll understand your opponent's true nature. Not only are they kind, but I think every time you go through dating experiences, you'll be able to understand people you can really trust.
Try to look at the other person calmly.
Be careful not to drown in love.

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