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I'm currently a 19 year old guy. I have fallen in love just like anyone else, and I have lived my life thinking about people.
However, one's own dependency becomes revenge, and if you are not dependent on someone (mental dependency), you cannot control your emotions due to anxiety, and your mood becomes intense.
It interfered with my life, so I repeatedly asked myself what to do, and I also go to counseling.
When I think about the past, I was able to rely on women who were dependable, and although it's a bad way to say they were loved, they were only socially disadvantaged people.

Back to the original story, what should I do to make mood bipolar disorder etc. not interfere with my life?
There are two options I was able to come up with myself: simply give up on my life falling apart without depending on anyone, or give up standing on one's own feet and live by leaning on someone else.

I don't think I'm right, so I'd like you to tell me a better choice.
Sorry for the long post.

3 Zen Responses

Everyone depends on it, but what?

People can't live without dependency.
Language, clothing, housing, society. I didn't get them all by myself.
Thanks to someone else.

We depend on each other. If the term dependency doesn't work, it doesn't matter if you support each other.
You can't live alone without someone; that is a human being. Weak people gather to support each other.

Incidentally, for bipolar disorder, please recite the Nanmu Myōhō Renge Kyō over and over again for any number of days without sparing your voice.
Our followers were able to overcome it
FYI.

Why don't you explore the past?

First of all, it was good to be aware of my own way of life where I “depend on people to live.” People are big or small, but they can't live without being dependent on someone. It is the very nature of the human world.
However, they probably felt some kind of problem with writing it in hasunoha.
What I recommend at that time is to remember your past growth history. Above all, it's a scene where I learned something. Wouldn't it be more appropriate to say that I understood rather than learned?
People learn from experience, so to be honest, it was the hardest experience I've ever had. It was a sad experience for me at that time, and I couldn't live without someone to take care of me. That experience as a child probably became the origin of your “dependency trend.”
This is a counseling technique, and remembering it is probably the first starting point. Also, since she is called a “socially vulnerable person,” I feel that relationships that are not equal are at your origin. That is different from the current situation, and I am now different from that time, if you find or think of anything, ask the next question.

I don't say dependency or difficult words.

(period drama)
Isn't it okay to be lonely?
There are times when you feel lonely, right?
It's a bit complicated because it's called dependency, and doctors make you sick.
It's just nonsense; they're just being fooled by information.
The truth is simpler.
there was something that made you feel lonely, wasn't there?
Please don't let me listen to that one. That's my answer.
The greeting was delayed. It's a completely unrelated story, but I'm Tange who finally made my beauty clinic debut the other day. Shiromoto Clinic! ♪
When I was asked to make it Kimutaku, I was told it was impossible. Shiromoto Clinic! ♪ lol
Oh, of course I didn't go for plastic surgery, and about a year ago, when I was shaving my head, it was a bloody disaster. Pushie! You don't shave with a cheap razor, do you?
Even if I get a scum, it's so itchy and bloody again!
It's getting bigger and bigger.
A long time ago, they probably hit a bee because they made fun of people who had trouble with their heads and said “reset switch” (fumicon generation) or something. I got a similar wart. It really is a reset switch. So I decided to take it. It's a reset switch.
When I grew up, something that hadn't existed until now grew, but I felt like something was being lost.
It got bigger and bigger, and it became about my own head. a lie. It's now about 7 millimeters.
I scraped it off and removed it. Shiromoto Clinic! ♪
Refreshing. I felt refreshed even though what I had this time was gone. It was freed even though it was lost.
It must be strange.
Humans are not necessarily happy just because they have a partner. There is also the inconvenience of being detained if you are there.
I might be lonely without them. But that is freedom.
There must be hundreds of thousands more people who said goodbye today in search of freedom from their partner.
What are you trying to say? It's a reset switch. That way of thinking.
Get it even if you move away from your opponent. Give it to me.
Even if you get together with your opponent, don't get it; give it to me.
Right now, don't feel like it, even if you're in a daze, that you're receiving a blessing.
Dependence is just a “word.” Omee-sama is just caught up in those words.
Don't worry, that addiction or something like that wart. Not at Shiromoto Clinic ‼♪, but at a zazen session.