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Realistic happiness and unreal happiness

I'm looking for both realistic happiness and unrealistic happiness, and I think for myself that my desires are wobbling between the two.

And I think that purpose and action must match, but since they seek both, there are times when I don't know how to act.

Do we have to choose between realistic happiness and unrealistic happiness in order to act toward a goal?

4 Zen Responses

I have 10 or 20 jobs

As you become a member of society and your circle of relationships expands, you will have more things to do.
I'm a student, so what I have to do is limited.
Don't feel like you're at a loss because you're being forced to choose between the two in such circumstances!
Pursue both.

What do you do when you run away from a young age?

Are you addicted to expressions?

Good evening. Thank you for posting at 4 a.m.
I get the impression that I'm somehow lost in a maze of words. What is “unrealistic happiness” in particular? Is it abstract happiness, or something so grand that it seems difficult to realize?
If you don't try to express the happiness you assume is “unreality,” in some other, imaginable language, I think you probably won't be able to get a physical response. As it is now, it looks like “trouble that can only be put into words.”

Do you know such a monster

In terms of Buddhism, dissatisfaction is born because one wishes. Even if you are satisfied, if you are satisfied, the amount of cellulose increases due to desire, and it is easier to become dissatisfied as you increase the amount. So satisfaction, dissatisfaction, happiness, and unhappiness are two sides of the same coin. Even if it's an outrage with two sides of the same coin, I can't make up my mind like a dog twirling around chasing my tail.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't want it. It's smart to do whatever you want and not notice the results.

The purpose and action should match, but if you don't understand because you want both... yeah, they don't match. If you have a purpose, don't call it what you want. For example, let's say the purpose was to make a fried egg. So, spread the oil, break the egg, add a little water, cover it, and wait for how many minutes... all of this is convenient for frying eggs, and I don't even need a single speck of thought. Rather intrusive. It's snappy.

Sometimes I want to add cola instead of water, which is an extra inconvenience, isn't it? Instead of arranging fried eggs the way you want, it's more fun and delicious if you adjust yourself to your own wishes for fried eggs. Even when it comes to arranging, there is an arrangement that is close to the characteristics of fried eggs first, and I decipher it.

I just wobble while I'm thinking with my own heart. Just as if you tie a string to yourself to a telephone pole around there and it becomes a pin, your mind is determined by letting go of your own thoughts. When people die like that, ah, I can say that life was fun. So “do you know such a monster?”

What is the difference between real ribs and delicious shinbo

Unrealistic happiness is painting cake. The mochi I drew in the picture.
It's like a girl who mellows in your head like a good-looking app.
From a man's point of view (-omega-)... They turn women into enemies, so I'm not saying anything.
There is something called delicious shinbo in the manga.
It's a cooking manga, but there are a lot of things written on it that make you think “wow” as you read it. And as I read it, I began to think it looked delicious.
But my stomach doesn't swell. That's because it eats up information.
What you call unrealistic happiness isn't it a state of “eating information”?
80% of humans live by eating information.
My job is to feed them a real, juicy, greasy rib called enlightenment.
However, many people are satisfied with information, so they don't want to eat it.
What I'm explaining here is an introduction to enlightenment.
It's like a salad before the main dish is brought in; no, it's like an underlay napkin with a fork or knife placed on it. Your stomach won't swell. If it's about tears, I can wipe it away.
True real happiness is something you should feel. Become a brain you can feel. So, please come and enjoy the real thing in search of enlightenment and not have the illusion of being “good” with information.
I'll just point out one mistake you made.
The world in my head that says realistic happiness and unrealistic happiness is an information world.