hasunoha

I want to be able to read the air.

I can't read the air quite a bit.

Please feel free to say anything.
It is said,
Even though it's just a pre-construction,
You can say anything.
I seriously misunderstood that.

After speaking,
As a scene around you,
ah, that was no good?
I finally notice it due to reactions from those around me.
I'll do it over and over again.

Anything is fine doesn't mean you can talk about anything! I began to think,

What I really want to talk about
I was so bogged down that I couldn't say
You're not clear! It is said.
Think about whether it's okay to say it or not
What I said to take the plunge
With a statement that annoys the other party
The relationship gets pretty awkward.

But don't say it, what I said after days of thinking about what I was just ignoring
Why didn't you tell me sooner? It is said,

I really don't understand the standards at all.

It's a negative statement
It destroys everyone's air.
I'm just talking, and that's right,
Even though it's something I want them to receive
They take it pretty seriously, and they pull it off.

When I was a kid, there were people who directly warned me,
When you become an adult, people like this aren't dealt with, or you're overtaken by their existence
It's sad.

I really want to do something about it,
I really don't understand.

By the way, what bothers me the most
I'm really bad at group LINE.

Even if everyone marks it as read
They haven't answered anything,
Everyone gets passed through.
Everyone else stamps and stuff without getting through...

Facebook groups too
My statement is real, but I don't get any likes even though everyone has read it, probably because it's heavy and dark.
I hope you don't have to worry about it,
Obviously, it's extreme with others, so I'm depressed.
This is the most bearable.

Talking to people is also
It makes me scared.
I'm afraid of the remarks,
But not saying it is frustrating,
I want to continue building a good relationship with my partner.
Please give me some advice.

5 Zen Responses

Invisible Feelings

People who speak the truth honestly feel uncomfortable, and that is the world today.
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As you said, no one will pay attention when you become an adult. As a result, they become people who feel uncomfortable just being warned a little bit.
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You should express your thoughts in words and actions as they are. Live honestly without fooling yourself. If the other reaction is bad, it's about feeling sorry, saying “Oh, sorry.”
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However, I want to have “Hidden Feelings.”

unconcerned


There are people who say a lot of things, but you are you.

I don't care, I don't care.

Abbreviation of introduction

Hmm, this is a story that often comes up when men and women pass by each other.
There is a difference in human brain capacity. Broadly speaking, they are men and women, but there is a difference in language capacity. Speaking of what I mean, someone I can keep up with even if it's a long story or jumping off. People who can't grasp the whole story unless they tell you only the main points. People who can't read whether they just want to be heard or if they want answers. Also, as a speaker, as a receiver, there are various styles.
So, how to fill in the gap even a little bit. It's an “introduction.”
“I'm still thinking about this...”, “I'm wondering if there are any good ideas...”, “I just want you to listen...”, etc., and clearly indicate what you want from the other person (although it's omitted in everyday conversation). It's pretty clear in English, right? Can you? It's like if you ask a question, you can answer it. So why don't you just be aware of the “way to receive answers” designation?
In Japanese, the display around that area is subtle, but Imadoki that area is handled quite laid-back, so I think it's certainly difficult to read. Therefore, I think that by consciously expressing that area, you will become a “person who can talk in an easy-to-understand manner.”
Also, as an always effective story, “a good speaker is a good listener.” Listen while predicting what the other person is trying to say, and score while watching the other person's reaction. I think repeating that will pave the way to becoming a good speaker.

Basically, there is no need to read air

Air is something you don't need to read. Generally, there are many people who have trouble communicating because they think too much about the other person = protect themselves too much.

However, that doesn't mean it's okay to say whatever you think. In your own judgment, you say or email things that this would be fine. However, the extent to which it is permissible varies from person to person.

Recently, there are many people with a developmental disability called Asperger's syndrome.
They are people who can't make firm judgments about relationships in that area, and can't live a good group life.
There are many mild people who don't get that kind of diagnosis.

It's not good or bad, and it seems like there is no choice but to memorize them one by one. It's probably important for people around you to understand your personality well, and to live a proud life without blaming yourself.

You also want to be able to go through it even if it's already read through.

I can't read the air KY the words are kind KY

Hello. Stop answering the dry and unforgiving air unreadable answers, I'll do it again with the monk Tange who doesn't read the air from Hasunohaichi from Triple KY.
Spicy Thai curry is also made mellow by coconut milk.
Just being painful makes pompons hurt.
Even if it's spicy, it's OK if it's “nicely packed up” like dandan noodles, shrimp chili, and mapo.
Let's change the route as soon as possible by pretending to be ourselves in Tange.
The popular dry type has not only spiciness, but also richness, umami, aroma, mellowness, and hidden sweetness.
Incidentally, my friend ate green curry at a Thai curry shop and really almost died, and it seems that he hasn't been able to eat it since then.
No matter how mild you use coconut oil, if the level of spiciness or toxicity exceeds the person's acceptable range, it will still not be accepted. Let's switch to a sweet route as soon as possible.
The curry for school lunches has a sweet setting that everyone can enjoy.
Similarly, mildness is safer in verbal expression than stimulation.
Therefore, things that are highly stimulating are difficult when dealing with the majority.
This is because the truth is too clear for some people.
In particular, in Japan today, there is a strange trend where sweet curry is so blurry that the truth, even the truth, is hidden.
Even if it is a definite truth, it has been brainwashed as if saying it itself is evil.
This is because it is a unique climate that values the whole of “Japan.” The other day, Miranda Kerr, who is popular in Japan, became a hot topic of conversation on the cover of a magazine, but it's already been a hot topic overseas. There's nothing to even hide.
In Japan, if you don't cover it up like an obrato, hand brat, or Yasumura's underpants, you're out.
The fact that it's OK to tell the truth in public is bad if the terms of the promise are not met.
One of Japan's ❝ air ❞ is that the character Moe Moe is more sexually harassed than Mr. Yasumura, who has a high degree of exposure.
Humans have a mentality of “being in an awful place...”
It's probably just the right virtue for Japanese people to keep the principal image, the object of worship, and Porori without opening the book.
Dry talk limited to people who know the truth is OK, but depending on the other party, the stimulation is too strong.
It's safer to refer to other people and use soft words to be kind.
It would be “cheaper” to hide the Kiwadoi truth. Don't use this guy as a reference even if you make a mistake.