Nobody can be trusted.

We are deeply venomous. So no matter how much the Buddha said the right thing and offered a helping hand, he didn't trust that hand and got rid of it.
This is what we look like now.
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We are called “crazy children (Oji)” in the Hokke Sutra.
They say we are no longer able to make the right decisions due to our poison.
The Buddha left a “good medicine (zekouroyaku)” for us.
That is the Namu Myōhō Renge Kyō.
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It doesn't matter if you don't understand the meaning.
The Buddha says that Namu Myōhō Renge Kyō is a medicine prepared for us to heal all toxic diseases (toxic diseases).
To take medicine, recite the Namu Myōhō Renge Kyō in a loud voice. It's a good idea to sing it over and over again until you have an image of it entering your body, and don't spare your voice, until your mind calms down.

Humans were born into this world, and before we know it, when we look at the world or things, we sometimes look at things “centered around ourselves.”
An egocentric perspective.
An affectionate look at myself.
A point of view that links anything and everything to oneself.
You've been watching things in this state.
First, you can clear your mind by taking a break and acknowledging even if it's different, saying, “Oh, that would have been the case.” This is because you can be aware that you are being tormented by your own ego.
Ego can show up in anyone. However,
The world is difficult when you are centered on yourself.
It's a state where children cry and scream as if they go insane when there is a TV program they want to watch and they change channels.
That is a self-centered perspective.
Humans are in such a state for the first time since they were born into this world.
The problem is that even when you become an adult, you can't solve it.
If you get rid of it, all your worries will go away.
I hate people so much that I want to kill them. Killing them will go to the show, run into someone you don't like, and you won't be able to get more and more sympathizers and understanding people.
Please try again.
Please take a slow breath and reflect on it, saying, “Oh, I had an egocentric perspective.
I think it will be easier.
I too have been discriminated against many times.
I've been fine since a certain point.
This is because I no longer have a self-centered perspective, and no matter what they say, I no longer incorporate it into my playing field. Also, the person who blames us is because they know that the person himself is sick.
The fact is always true, and no matter what kind of shocking incident it is, there is no spiritual attachment of “this river” (me) attached to it, and it is plain.
Please devise ways so that you can accept it as plain.
Once you understand that it's crazy, no matter how untrustworthy someone is, you will be able to go out with “that kind of guy” and “that kind of guy.”

I was walking my dog the other day. I was walking with my dog in front of my wife, and I passed by a group of two old women. When we pass each other,
“That dog has such a cute face.” One of those old women said. I was asking the lady next to me to talk to her, so I didn't respond in particular.
I was feeling a little better after being praised for my dog.

After that, my wife said, “Hey, did you hear what the old lady was saying now?”
I said, “I heard it. Dogs are cute...”
Wife: “After that, even though the dog is cute, the owner isn't cute. that's because. Uhuh.”

Hearing that story made me feel somewhat frustrated. It wasn't that I wanted to be liked by old women, but I couldn't see the facts because I imagined it from people's stories.

The fact is that the old woman made a voice and it reached my ears. Whether it was a compliment or a negative word, meaning was attached to it, and it means that I was swayed by worry. It's a very unfortunate story. I had lost sight of the facts.

Bumping one's own frustration on others is the image of a hungry ghost being swayed by worries while ignoring facts. Having an eye to discern what is true is the path to salvation.

Does “untrustworthy” mean you expected something from others, but others didn't live up to your expectations?
If so, that's normal.
No one else can control you the way you want.
Even your family isn't the way you want it to be.
Sometimes even your own body doesn't move the way you want it to.
There's no one who hasn't run and fallen.
So it's better not to expect too much from others.
But that doesn't mean we should think of others as enemies.
Why are you mad at your wife too?
It's because they're expecting something, right?
It's better not to expect anything and give up.
It makes me want to get angry because I expect it.
However, when you get angry, people around you want to walk away from you even more.
So, when you leave, you get extra angry, and others run away even more.
First, it's important not to make others uncomfortable.
Aim for characters that look like gentle old people by saying “thank you thank you” to your family, even for small things.