I'd like to ask my relatives to arbitrate.

What drives you is your instinct to return home.
I'm hungry for love. I want to be recognized by my parents. I want you to accept it. Heart thirst.
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Don't you or your parents have Mizuko? And aren't you neglecting water child support?
If you seem to be neglecting
Mizuko is urging her parents' love.
If it's your Mizuko, it's my child; if it's your parent, Mizuko, it's your brother, sister, brother, and sister.
Please provide water support.
That way, the parent-child relationship can be repaired.
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If Mizuko isn't there, I'll think again, so please ask.

First, write the following letter to your parents and write down your contact information.
① First, tell Ki-Chin and your parents in detail the “truth about getting divorced” and “the real reason.”
② I got divorced for “that reason,” but I can't help but regret not being able to express it better than my ex-husband.
And my former husband couldn't help but be afraid that he had gotten more into my family than me, as if he were right no matter what.
③ Write why it wasn't conveyed at the time.
④ Among my parents, I was the only one who was the bad guy, but I was sad that I became the bad guy without being able to tell the truth.
⑤ Write about the fact that my husband's personality when he is spending time alone with me and his personality, who behaves socially with my parents, are completely different things, and what was scary and painful for my husband. I wanted my parents to understand that the husband they were watching was not what a real husband looked like.
⑥ It's not about the position or public body, it means that marriage was an issue between the people in question. I really didn't apologize for the divorce, but I'm the only one who has actually experienced a life alone with my ex-husband.
⑦ The reason why I wanted to get divorced until then
⑧ It's like they didn't accept it. I'm more concerned about the public body and the face-to-face encounter between parents than the emotion of protecting my daughter, and I can't help but be sad that my biological daughter didn't believe my story at all.
It's also a good idea to send a letter with the same content to your relatives at the same time.
However, I think there are times when parents don't want their relatives to know about the shame of their family.
There are also places that can arrange arbitration at temples.

　I answered last time.

I don't know how many times and in what form the letter was sent, but it's sad that there were no replies.

In the previous question
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In an email from my ex-husband, “My parents said they had no intention of replying.” It was written on it.
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At the moment, my parents still trust DV's former husband more than “Kokoro.” In such a situation, if you tell your former husband by email about “sending a letter to your parents” and expose your details, it is thought that the DV ex-husband manipulated information in such a way that “Kokoro” would be at a disadvantage to your parents. Even though my parents received the letter, they didn't read it. I think they didn't really take it even when I read it. You don't need to stop e-mails with your ex-husband right away, but you need to be careful about how you distribute information. Even if you write a letter to your parents in good faith, it can be said that you are still in a situation where your sincerity is not accepted.

Asking a relative to arbitrate I think it's effective.
The problem is

1. Do you have relatives who are suitable to act as arbitrators? ,
2. Can you listen sincerely to “Kokoro”'s explanation and understand it?
3. Can you explain it to your parents and persuade them to restore the bond between parents and children?

That's why I had trouble communicating with my parents for 8 years, and I think I had even more trouble communicating with my relatives. Repairing relationships with relatives also takes time and steps. Even if you try to get them to understand everything in one go, your relatives might not listen as you would expect. Take the time to explain carefully and get them to understand. After establishing a relationship of trust, let's ask for arbitration with your parents.

appending
Whether it's sending a letter again or talking to a relative, let's sort out the facts again. Among them, it's bad if you write your parents' problems in a letter to your parents. However, when explaining to relatives, that point is important. It is also important to get the cooperation of relatives. I think Master Tange's answers will also be helpful. ,

If possible, if there are relatives who can help Kokoro, I feel like the conversation will go smoothly.
However, if that doesn't work, there is no choice but to search for someone you can ask for as a third party.
If there is a temple that is indebted to you, I think that would be great too.

I think it is important in order to calmly proceed with the conversation by summarizing in detail how much pain you have suffered, the reasons for your divorce, etc. in advance.

I think it's important to put together what you want to talk about beforehand.