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As a new member of society, I want to quit as soon as possible. but...

I started working as a new member of society this month.
I got a job at a program production company, was far from home to work, couldn't stop coughing because there was no smoke separation, the first train last train continued several times from the week I started working, and I got sick in just 1 week, and I was told to take a break for 2 to 3 days.
I got sick during the tutorial-like phase for just 1 week, and along with anxiety, I'm full of sorry feelings.
Also, since there are no time cards, etc., and there are times when my seniors say “I was able to go home in a long time,” I became really afraid of my future, and I began to want to quit.
When I talked to a friend who is a high school graduate and has gone out into society earlier, I received advice saying, “You can change jobs before you get sick,” but my parents are fiercely against it.
I don't think I'm old enough to say anything to my parents, but I can't quit because my parents are no good...
I didn't know what to do, and I thought that I had no choice but to die.
After all, should we follow what our parents say? I want to quit right now. I want to change jobs.

4 Zen Responses

Isn't it a little too early to make a decision?

I think three years or so is tough for any kind of job. Little by little, it will become fun as you understand how to get the hang of it and learn where to excel.
Honestly, I can quit anytime I want to quit. You don't have to take your life. If this is a job that I don't feel is humane, one way is to quit, but I was wondering if it was a job where people told me to take a break, there might be relief.
I don't know what's going on, so I can't say anything, but I think there are many things I can find as I continue. there's still more to come, isn't it?

what do you think...

I read your consultation. Hmm... I can't say anything, it's honestly difficult. It's your life, isn't it?

First, please be aware that what I want to keep in mind as an assumption is that this answer does not affirm a black work environment.

On top of that, but... the basic purpose of labor is to secure clothing, food, and shelter by obtaining wages as compensation.
If that's all you're looking for, there are probably other jobs with better working conditions.

Not only that, but if you're looking for something other than wages in your current job, I feel that it's still too early to make a decision at this stage. Of course, it's natural that you don't have to give up your life to work.
There are probably still many such work environments in the industry, right?

I think it's about thinking about how you want to live from now on, making your own decisions, whether you stop or not, and proactively shouldering responsibility for those decisions.

Do you have peers or seniors close in age you can rely on? Please consult carefully before thinking and deciding on your own.
That's because opinions from different perspectives from people in the same environment would be beneficial to you.

Even if you don't quit, it's probably just hard not being able to have independence at work if you feel “because your parents are no good.”

Make decisions that allow you to proactively live your life.

That's because it's your life

I read it.
I read it, and I think you have questions about your job and working conditions at that company yourself. I think so.
After all, jobs in that industry tend to have a lot of labor that ignores the Labor Standards Act.
If you don't have your own dreams or hopes that you definitely want to work hard on that path, or if you don't have feelings, I think it's okay to change jobs. There are many other roads.
That's because I can start over again.
Please think carefully about how you want to live in the future and consider it.

Your life is yet to come, and you may find what you really want to do in the midst of various encounters and experiences.

Please use your own intentions to make firm judgments.

I write tough things, but...

The production of the program is dangerous. Labor base law? What country's law is that? A friend who was used to being black in the game industry went to a program production company and became ill. It's not a place to work long if you don't really like it as much as you want, even if you sacrifice your health.
Your workplace is one of the “special industries.” There are many things that are not understood even when explained, and advice from people outside the industry is hardly helpful. Even if you quit, even if you do trial and error to get along well, it's better to look for someone you can talk to within that industry.
However, don't just quit without thinking ahead and get stuck later. Be sure to include not only “the next workplace you want to enter,” but also the “next workplace you enter.”

The story changes, but what parents think isn't always right. What is your parent's specialty? If you've been successful in that field, you're probably familiar with that field.
But other than that, they're so trusting that they talk to old men and old men all over town, really. That's because most of the old men and old men around here are someone else's parents. Just because you become a parent doesn't mean that your status values will increase dramatically and you will be able to give correct advice about anything.

In particular, people who have a sense of the bubble period are ingrained in the belief that “no matter what kind of black person you are, if you persevere for a few years, you will be rewarded with a good salary.” No matter how many years of perseverance there is no way to be rewarded, I can never understand modern black.
I don't want to say this, but even now, the people who continue to think so won't change anymore... even if my child gets sick and is hospitalized, “Imadoki young people don't have guts!” How many parents keep thinking and finally regret it after committing suicide?
To be honest, I don't want to watch young people die like that anymore...

I won't say anything bad, choose the right person to talk to.