A way to face your own feelings about people you don't like.

(Below is half of the story)
Hello. My name is Tankoro Tentan Tange, commonly known as “The Man Who Calls the Storm,” who makes the headquarters cringe every time he answers.
(Image: Ishihara Yujiro's movie poster)
Surely, that person is probably, surely, probably, the “Nikkatsu generation,” although there is no confirmation. There's no doubt about it.
“Bastard! You did it! Good damn it! “Put it on!”
People who grew up in extreme dramas in the middle of the Showa period have their heads dyed in “Nikkatsu dramas.”
“Eh, it's a hassle! Play them all at once!”
Justice is a thought that defeats evil, so when words are rough, a sense of justice only appears from the heart.
That is the only way to express it.
Don't look at it the same way as people raised in the late Showa period or Heisei.
Just as Kuya Shonin has Buddha coming out of his mouth, abusive lines just come out of his mouth in leading actor mode in the “Nikkatsu” drama. Incidentally, Bruce Lee and Fist of the North Star sometimes come out of my mouth. it's warm!
Please know that if you don't like that person, it's not that you don't like that person; the problem is your own dislike of that person. The next time you think “I don't like it,” please see through that person that you are being tormented by your own sense of disgust.
That is the true nature of bitterness and suffering.
“Your real enemy is yourself” (Tezuka Osamu “Buddha”)
People I don't like and hate are actually phantom partners projected in my heart.
In order to actually have a conversation with that person in the field, it is important to turn off the video on your monitor before interacting with them.
That person on your monitor only sees one scene tens of thousands of minutes of that person's life.
That person is sometimes a very kind person at home.
What you don't like is a moment in the book on your monitor or screen.
The real thing is moving around.
Try clarifying the differences.

There are people like that everywhere.

They are probably aggressive because they want to show themselves even a little bit superior.

I was also beaten when I was playing a role in an organization.

This kind of person doesn't even have constructive opinions; I think they only express their feelings on the spot.

I went on and on pointing out the details of each statement made by that person, and I also asked people around me to take a look at the content.

When my opponent bit me, this time I gave them a detailed number of sheets that I didn't want to read every time, and they didn't say anything about it, and ostensibly became quiet.

Well, you don't have to be mean like this. but.

The best thing to do is not to deal with them.

That's because it seems like you can see your surroundings because you understand it too.

Oh, it's easy to say something; it's a statement that the other person made on the spot and left to their emotions.

It's a waste of effort if you just take it seriously.

You're already dealing with your feelings. Recognizing that you're angry right now and that it's not a good thing means facing yourself.
After confirming the current situation in this way, what do you want to do from there?
I don't intend to get along well, and I don't intend to fight.
I think it is essential to clarify the desired results and think about how to obtain those results.

However, we don't reject people we don't like.
The act of refusing sees the other person as a problem and amplifies that feeling.

The problem is that they look at their partner with a selfish color of “dislike.” When you look at someone, there's no such thing as disliking them; they just have someone. Add that and look at it as it was before.

If you look closely at your partner, people you thought you weren't good at will not be able to see that. It's important to accept it as it is. Even when you listen to the story, just listen to it in the way it was before you thought, “Why are you doing such a nice thing.”

Surprisingly, I notice that I'm having trouble speaking and my breathing is disturbed, and I can tell from their facial expressions that they're not frustrated; they just want to say it. Either way, it won't be my problem anymore.