hasunoha

Please encourage

A hated role. What needs to be conveyed needs to be stated clearly so that misunderstandings do not occur. Nonetheless, after all, there are times when it's hard.

It's about losing money. It's not that good either, but it's a human being that can be messed with if they get jealous and say bad things.

It's a big request, but could you encourage me like this?

The words of people who know the circumstances don't resonate with idealism no matter what.
Even if they say you don't have to carry it on your back alone, or that you don't have to overdo it, someone has to do it. There is no one to take over, so I have no choice but to take over. Now that I've made up my mind, I can't throw it out, so I'm doing it bluntly.

Since it's not the quality of talking to outsiders (friends and acquaintances, for example) and complaining, few people know about this hardship or effort. It's not that I want to be understood, and there are times when I get depressed and feel like losing to loneliness, just like now.

My husband's words are directed at the day after tomorrow in many ways, so they make me laugh and aren't encouraging.

Sometimes, I just want to hear words of pure encouragement. Pure encouragement only when you don't understand the circumstances.

I'm sorry for the unreasonable request that wasn't a question.

2 Zen Responses

Hated Daiji's Complaint and Praise

It's tough, isn't it, a disliked role. Originally, I don't like that person when they do something like being shot in the back by the monk who has the most to guess, that person is being disliked and is playing a role.
It's become a strange world, and the race that has the most preconceived idea and doubts monks for the time being is even more so since it's an age called monks. The monk who is about to take action says this in unison. “It's always the monks who get in the way the most.”
However, most of the monks who are trying to take action say, “Monks are scum!” They cause action while saying that, so both of them are either one, but...

These gyokai people really speak ill of themselves as if they were breathing out. (The guy who slaps his back in the back saying ←)

Now, let's say Jimi Tokudo and others (Jimi Tokudo Sendota), and in terms of textbooks, it means putting one's own salvation on the back burner and saving others first.

What is salvation? What is enlightenment? Get out of the reincarnation of thoughts that make you think round and round... this is Buddhism.
I want to save them against this! I can't help but reach out! Let's get together with people who are suffering, think round and forth, and try to art and collaborate together! ... This is called the Bodhisattva Path.

So rather than putting your own salvation on the back burner, you can get out of the pool of suffering and be by the pool of salvation, but you can always jump into the pool for someone who is drowning! Of course I'll jump in! That's the spirit, isn't it?

In Buddhism, people who only do the Buddha path and those who only do the Bodhisattva path are half full.
(I'm not writing much because it deviates from the story, but neither the Mahaya nor the Theravada have anything to do with it. (Rather, a reversal phenomenon is occurring now.)

Damn it, I don't know if what you're trying to do is really right. There's no way to know. But I respect the way they try to do it with conviction.

You should not be afraid that you will get dirty. People who are fine and can get muddy are truly noble people.
You should not be afraid of not being understood by people. People prefer sweet lies to bitter truths.
Sometimes you'll make mistakes yourself. In such a case, let's apologize outright. If you are prepared to hit others, you must also be prepared to take risks.
Please do your best.

I think people who can tell the truth are wonderful.

The time is Heisei 3X.
The world was engulfed in flames.
If you open your mouth, it will cause trouble to your friend's friend's friend's friend, so it's like a shellfish to keep everyone shut their mouths.
“Like!” on SNS The “♡” button also has a diffusion effect, and “I like this article ❝! ❞ What a feeling I can't believe” and “I like it!” The way to use the buttons was misunderstood and I really liked it! I also liked the article! I'm no longer allowed to even evaluate it.
Somebody has to tell the truth.
That's right.
You're not wrong.
It's tough, right?
Please don't lose and push forward.
If you think you're blaming the other person for speaking ill, criticizing, or speaking behind your back, be good at communicating that too. What is the most essential part of that saying?
The main thing should not be attacking your opponent.
That's probably why I want you to understand something.
People simply don't like themselves being attacked.
They won't listen to it, even if it's a really good story about getting better or if it's a really good story from the bottom of my heart that I want to protect myself.
However, I think that suggestion and what needs to be said is actually something that will improve the whole as a whole.
If that's the case, I think we should keep on telling you.
We should push forward so that it penetrates more and more.
You should make friends with one person who understands the true value of saying “you are right” rather than belonging to a compliance group.
If you're concerned about being liked or disliked, you can't tell the truth.
I also wanted the industry to improve overall, so I posted the problems with our organization, and once again, it's a total surprise. My friend was getting farther and farther away.
But that's how true friends can be found.
There are things in this world that someone has to say.
If it is delivered to the person to whom it should be delivered, it has a positive effect and works to make flowers bloom.
Dogen Zenji said, “Fuse is not greedy. It's so annoying.” It has been explained.
This “unbearable” is cut from the sutra called Shushengi. Is this also a degree of disdain? (lol)
An offering is a good act performed by the other party in order to move towards enlightenment.
It's really better to tell them what they really need.
It's something I do because I think it's an alms. It is probably desirable to proceed well so that it is in the public interest and overall benefit (riyaku). Please believe in yourself and push forward.