My jealousy of my ex-boyfriend makes me feel bad for myself.

Please let me discuss it with you.
I was in a relationship with my older ex for about half a year, but even after we broke up, my cheating relationship with my ex continued for a while. I was hoping for a reunion, but my ex only used it conveniently.
My ex was on the brink of ending his relationship with me, and he got back together with his ex-girlfriend at work who I had been in a relationship with a few years ago. Even though she once said that marriage was a prerequisite for me, that story quickly went away, and I was thinking about getting married to my current girlfriend six months later...
I felt like I was being used as a springboard, and if I actually got married, it was like I had no place for my feelings... I suddenly remembered and became sad, jealous, and frustrated... I want to be saved.
Please give me some advice on how to think.

4 Zen Responses

boring man

That guy is boring.
No one benefits from dating.
No matter who you marry, no one is happy.
There's nothing good about being around.
I think my ex girlfriend took over the god Plague.

What do you mean by loving?

Nice to meet you, Komachi.

I was hoping to get back together with my ex, but things didn't go well.

I think love is give and take, and love is give and give.
Give and give is called alms in Buddhism.

Komachi is frustrated and jealous that her ex-boyfriend has taken her.
Is that love? Or is it love?

I recommend a life of charity.

It's important to make an assessment.

If you take it negatively as being used, regretting it, or being upset, it will only hurt you, and if the man you are dealing with is happy, it will be even more frustrating! It just becomes.

With positive thinking, you may not have had an eye for sight this time, but it seems like you can make use of what you've learned this time next time. Let's take a close look at who we meet next. Thanks for letting me learn. If you stay in the mind of the Buddha, your feelings will also change. All you have to do is become a Buddha and become a big person who accepts everything.

Give someone a donation Masse (-.-)

You should give that wonderful boyfriend or something to someone.
It wasn't originally yours, so you can add a bouquet of flowers.
Actually, the bouquet is from Iran, but you should send it to them with that feeling.
Because it's not something you should keep at your place.
The root of jealousy is a desire for possessiveness and exclusivity.
There is a sense of desire to take it as one's own.
Everything is from heaven and earth.
It doesn't belong to anyone.
You too have already been blessed with an infinite number of men who are that person, but you have been distracted only by your past years and are no longer able to see other wonderful men.
If it's painful to have, it's making you unhappy, so you should let go.

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