hasunoha

I'm worried about my gaze.

I'm worried about my gaze.
For some reason, they seem to glare at people around them.
Because of that, people talk bad about it, saying “I'm glancing at you” and “it's disgusting.”

I'm very concerned about the person who came into my field of vision
I watch it even if I don't want to.

It's also hard to live a normal daily life.
How can I live without worrying about my own gaze?
I'd like some advice.

4 Zen Responses

Interested in humans

Maybe it's highly artistic.
Me too. I can't help but worry about 360 degrees.
Because it's impossible not to watch at all
From now on, let's just put up with it and set it to about once every three times.

I have no choice but to worry about myself and live

I'm glad I noticed my habit of glancing at things myself.
Better than not knowing.

If someone else actually says that, it's better to worry about it yourself.
I feel like everyone sees people passing by.
Well, there is also a possibility that there is some difference between how you look at it and how others see it.
If you record your own gestures, you might be able to understand something.
Even if you look at it the same way, it might be a good idea to do research on whether you're looking at the other person's face or not, and whether you're looking away in a hurry when your eyes seem to be right.
Also, it may be possible to save impulsive watching by verbalizing “line of sight” or “I want to see” etc. in your head when you want to take a glimpse.
Also, if you have eyes with your partner, it may not be a bad impression if you make eye contact and smile rather than making them run away. (I know a woman like that, but I don't have a bad impression.)
Either way, if it's your own personality, why don't you live your life worrying about your own individuality?

Let's do facial cleansing

Nice to meet you, My Neighbor Donuts.

You're worried about your own gaze, aren't you? I don't like it because it looks like I'm looking at it.

If you're just looking at it, you might be creepy.
So why don't you send a smile along with your gaze? In Buddhism, it is called facial cleansing.

Why don't you give the gift of a smile?

You can take a look

It's not all your problem, the one being watched is the problem, and you're not bad at all. If you were walking down the hallway and the doors were 10 centimeters open, you wouldn't look at it without thinking about anything. It doesn't matter if there are people behind it or not. No matter what the person watching thinks, you just look at it unconsciously because it bothers you, and you can't live if you worry about that.
If they say anything, it's because you're too beautiful or that you're too good-looking, then that's OK.