On anxiety and causal retaliation against love.

The Flying Boy

Nice to meet you.

> A-kun and her are very close, and they always act together, and they both go out to play alone, go on trips, sleep on the same futon, and when they get drunk, they insist for kisses... I was told that they are two people in a “more than friends but less than lovers” relationship. (← She herself said this. (However, it seems that they have never had a physical relationship until now.)

I think it's going to be very painful.
If my partner were like this, I wouldn't be able to bear it.
I think you've been very patient.

Also, on top of that, I think it's absolutely true to wish “I want punishment to be handed down.”

However, the “punishment” being applied here is not the opponent A, but her.

While keeping the idle boy, I also flirt with Mr. A, who is comfortable.
Maybe now is the best time for her.
Every human being would be happy if a lot of people cheated on them.
As for A-kun, “Botamochi from the Shelf” may fall one day.
I don't think there's any reason to let go.

Even if you say “change” to the girlfriend who is in the best position right now, you probably don't understand why she has to change.

She may still be too young to understand that “taking care of one person directly leads to taking great care of yourself.”
However, it is normal for people to fight back when others force them.
You probably have to learn by watching your eyes hurt a few times.

The idle boy.
Can you wait until she's an adult?

I think her “punishment” comes in the form of heartbreaking for the idle boy who takes care of her.
I sincerely hope that the idle boy who can take care of her will notice her soon.

Hello, Airborne Boy.
Koibana, isn't it? I'm envious, I'm not happy... I can tell you that you are seriously worried!

Now, people suffer from assumptions; if I were to give a special list, there are four. ... the Buddha said.

(This relationship) lasts forever = normal
(This relationship) fun = easy
(This relationship) of course = me
(This relationship) healthy = clean

But that doesn't seem to be the case. I know the idle boy is keenly aware.
Regarding the above 4 (Joraku Gajyo), life is painful because it doesn't seem like it! (Everything is painful).

But, it's not unreasonable to think so. because it's human. Rather, it's proof that you're alive, and it's proof that you love her. It's also proof that I want punishment.

So, are you going to punish Mr. A yourself? That behavior is stupid, isn't it?
Do you want A to be punished? He seems like a human boyfriend, but why don't we just throw that desire away?

Normal (it hasn't continued already), easy (rather bothersome and painful), I (I want to punish her), and Kiyoshi (I think she's suspicious).
These four can be called natural phenomena. It occurs naturally.
But we are human. Use human willpower. It tells me the bad part, so I should do something about it.
Always (going to see each other so that a good relationship continues, etc.) , easy (preparing surprises so that you can have a fun life, etc.) , I (measuring communication more), and Seiji (discussing each other's future).

Do your best so that you can continue to enjoy yourself in Joraku. Buddhism teaches us to live well.

There is a male horse that has had a rough temper after having its female stolen from us. I'm not “sending salt to enemies” in place of heaven, but “sending horses,” so please tell me the shipping address.
(Below, jokes are sandwiched between places for palliative care, so Sarari and I'm laughing at you)
The conclusion “Let's do it once and for all (laughs)” makes me reflect on it and makes me realize how conveniently I am living.
① Men hate that kind of thing
② I especially hate that kind of thing
③ Same as Mari Yaguchi ← divorce in terms of married couples
④ If you're such a passionate woman as of now, it's impossible to do the same after that.
It means getting them to understand it.
Of course, as soon as I told it, I didn't want to hear it, ah... there is a possibility that you will be retaliated against with bomb information that you should not have known, so if you bring along an “interpreter and chamberlain who skillfully cuts information you shouldn't let the king hear” on the day, you won't get hurt.
Right after you told them the reason and said goodbye, I refused to receive emails. They don't get in touch at all.
That's how we put each other's fires out. ('・ω・) If it's serious, they'll come to my house.
There is no emotion in this world as painful as jealousy.
Bad relationships and bad causes ❝ if you don't cut them from you ❞, you will also have deep feelings of loss, abandonment, betrayal, and hurt for at least ten years.
There is nothing other than a Fuji TV daytime drama or “Beverly Hills Seishun Hakusho,” where people are allowed to get stuck in the same futon as another person of the opposite sex even though they are still in a marriage/romantic relationship in the old days of Mongolia or “Beverly Hills Seishun Hakusho.”
What she is doing is an affair that is superior enough even though there is insufficient evidence. Wow, it's definitely going to happen (← oops this is my fantasy)
Acknowledging that relationship, you are certified as the last samurai of this century, the last good person on the verge of extinction. Great, splendid! A clean and clean heart like yours is the power to save the world. Eventually, I would like you to make efforts to spread Buddhism.
You may get angry, but please accept it as a rough cure to keep you calm.
Additional note: Eight-sided beauty disease, passionate women are in a state of spiritual thirst formed by a unique parent-child relationship. I will continue to look forward to looking for someone who will respond by showing off a good face no matter where they are. Nevertheless, if you like her, you should provide mental care assistance to make beautiful women from all sides take sides with jealousy and the determination to go along with them. This is what horses are → Search for “Shiba-Dogen”

She's only 22 years old, and she's in a long distance relationship,
A-kun is always with her.
Don't they like A-kun more than you do?
It's her verbal promise to get married, but if you're really thinking about getting married
I don't think that's going to happen.
I'm more concerned about A-kun's behavior than her behavior.

The Flying Boy

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

As I have seen, this is certainly a difficult situation, and it is well understood that the idle boy is outraged and pessimistic.

“The teaching of Buddhism is all suffering”... Of course, it is also called “all suffering,” or “all suffering,” as one of the basic laws of Buddhism, but rather, “all suffering” may be a better way to use it than “all suffering.”

In particular, we don't know the truth about “the sky and luck,” and we are ignorant and ignorant, and we end up suffering.

Every “act” is sometimes thought of as various acts, various things, and things, and there are also cases where it is our act. Various acts are also related to impermanent acts, but my humble life regards all misdeeds as our actions in the midst of ignorance and ignorance. In other words, I think this can be thought of as “bad work.”

Of course, if you think so, it also means that actions that are not due to ignorance or ignorance, and actions that are not bad will not cause suffering.

Also, by eliminating ignorance and ignorance, we will be required to achieve “nirvana silence,” which is a law seal free from hesitation and suffering. Therefore, I know that you should avoid understanding Buddhism by being caught up only by “all suffering.”

Anyway, now, the suffering of the idle boy is caught up in her actions, Mr. A's actions, and is occurring in accordance with it, but it is difficult to easily decide whether that behavior is bad or whether it is permissible in terms of morality, ethics, and chastity views, since it also differs depending on individual values, but if there is no intention to harm, and there is no offense, there may be no problem. However, as long as the idle boy is actually suffering, it is necessary to resolve the cause.

Honestly, I think it would be better to aim for a solution by clearly communicating the reason for your current suffering and painful feelings to her, Mr. A.

If that doesn't seem possible, I think it would be wise to be sought for a new relationship until then, and to be able to search for someone with whom you can spend a more secure, enjoyable, and happy time.

I pray for the happiness of the idle boy.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho