educations

congratulations.
There's no need to think about “education.” You just have to be serious and work hard to live your life. Kids are watching you like that... (laughs).
I'll give you one hint. Kids aren't “yours”!?. then, “whose is it”?
❝ It's a gift from the Buddha ❞. In other words, the Buddha is making you “take care of it for a while”... So I have to “give it back” to the Buddha someday...
? Right... (laughs).
In short, as I said at the beginning, you live well, nurture them carefully, and send them out into society as a person... that means “giving back to the Buddha.” Good luck!
Also, one more thing... Children are ❝ gifts from the Buddha ❞, so other people's children are also ❝ gifts from the Buddha ❞. So, it's originally “Buddha's.” So don't “compare.” In other words, compared to other kids, don't think “I won or lost”... It's quite difficult, but it's important. Gassho

Hello Shinmama.

You've got a child, haven't you? First off, congratulations!
I probably got help from my mother earlier than my other classmates. I think I still want to play, but having children means we have to live a life where we raise and live with children at the center of our lives. I think it will be difficult, but please do your best with the cooperation of your husband, parents, and people around you. And when you're tired, don't overdo it and consult with us. It's important to take a day off, too.

If you want to raise your child well, you, the mother, should live a good way of life. That's because kids grow up watching from behind. There are lots of child-rearing books, so be sure to read them.

If it becomes difficult, please feel free to contact us or ask. I'm rooting for you.

Go for it, Shinmama!

People who have just been scolded by their parents are sick.
This is almost true.
Even if you tell your kids to be good even though you're not great, children can't be great because their parents are a reference.
This is also true.
It would be good if you became a virtuous person.
People who are regarded as good in society are often not born, so their guts are not admirable.
Please be a virtuous person.

Education is not about gaining knowledge, teaching moral rules, or discipline.
I think it's about nurturing people.

What kind of people are attractive? You don't want your kids what you don't have. It's not about imposing it. There are parents who entrust their dreams to their children, but that's not the case. Kids are good people too. You learn from your kids as you raise them. Then you become a true adult.
Speaking of Buddhism, it's Buddha.
Children don't grow up straight if they are adults who hold their heads, worry, and have such a face. They honestly express joy with a smile, move their bodies, and become role models and people they admire. Seeing someone like that would make a child want to be like that. Please don't be shy and raise healthy and honest children.

Be healthy.
It must be safe.

First, I want them to live on a foundation of safety and security.

On top of that, they don't discriminate against or criticize people who aren't great, and they become “great people” as they follow up on what they can.

I wish Shinmama and her children healthy growth.