I was told by a worshiper that my baby would be born with some kind of disability

“Strange baby” is an ambiguous expression, isn't it?
Everyone has some kind of strange part, even if they don't have a disability.
It's better not to believe too much.
Certainly, a stressful lifestyle cannot be said to be good for pregnant women, but every day of wild animals is a stressful life or death.
It's not good to worry about it and get stressed.

Also, strangely enough, many parents around me who have had children with disabilities are pretty solid parents.
It's as if a child chose that parent, saying, “This parent will raise them properly.”
Well, that might be a coincidence, though.
The future, even if it can be predicted, cannot be confirmed.
It's a life where you can only do what you can, so if you do what you can now, that's fine.
Isn't an unreasonable move just tough?

Kianisama
Nice to meet you, my name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

Congratulations on having your second child.
However, my mother-in-law interfered, my parents-in-law had disagreements and disputes, and I was further told by the “worship shop” that they were uneasy. There is even the term maternity blue, so I was a little infuriated as to why it would give Kiani anxiety if she stopped by.

I can't help but be angry, sorry (^_^;)
As a monk of the Jodo Shinshu sect, I don't think the worshiper's words have any basis, and I don't need to worry about them in particular. Don't worry about anything.

I think that worship shop just listened to the environment surrounding Kiani-san and made a short-circuited decision, “Maybe I should leave the house.” There may be no offense, but I don't think the words were made by thinking deeply about Kiani.

Of course, the possibility that a child will be born with a disability is not zero. But that's not because Kiani didn't listen to what the worshipper said. It is the result of overlapping relationships that people cannot measure. So even if your child has a disability, don't blame yourself.

I think what Kiani should do now is not forget to smile even in a difficult home environment. Strangely enough, just putting a smile on your face can improve your feelings and boost your immunity, even if it's a joke. It may also have a positive effect on your child's stomach.

Don't forget to smile during difficult times and give birth to a healthy baby.
I sincerely wish you a safe delivery (-person-)

~Thank you, P.S. ~
It's reassuring to hear that they got fired up and thought they wanted to have strong feelings!
But don't keep getting bogged down.
I think it's also important to express your feelings to your real parents, siblings if you are there, and friends. Of course, the monks are also waiting for you at Hasunoha (^_^)

Give birth to children and become a mother.
I've decided to live my life desperately, relying only on you, for a small life.
Even if you have a disability, you will surely become a “mother” to those stubborn beings who try to live even harder.
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My mother is strong.

Everyone has various problems or runs into trouble in their daily lives. There are people in each region and region who have been called “worship shops” since ancient times as consultants in such cases. It can be said that people in the profession called fortune tellers are almost similar.

It is precisely because they always have some kind of trouble or doubt that clients come to consult.
The worshipper first asks for the client's flophile. On top of that, “did anyone in your family get into an accident?” “Did anyone in your family get sick or die?” “Has anyone in your family had a miscarriage or abortion?” I will ask questions like that. If you ask this much, there are any that apply. If there is nothing applicable, “the direction of the house is bad.” “The location of the Buddhist altar is wrong.” etc., I'll make up some kind of villain. This is the usual method of most worshippers and fortune tellers. A ceremony such as “calling God” and “receiving an announcement” is performed before telling the client about the so-called “commission.” They are “worshipers' self-hypnosis and narcissism.” Or, I think it would be better to understand it as “direction/performance.”

“Living together was very bad. Take your son out of the house right now. Otherwise, the child being born will be born with some kind of disability (strictly speaking, it was said that a strange baby will be born).” “There is no reason to quickly find an affordable property in the direction shown at the worship shop.”

I think the above letter of trust matches the “business method of a worship shop” I exemplified. There are times when various doubts arise in life. Should I get married or quit? Should I retire or should I persevere? At that time, there are also cases where the worship shop's letter gave me a boost, and I was able to move forward. An acquaintance may have suggested it because they had that kind of experience, but it was a really annoying suggestion.

I think it would be very difficult to live with my parents-in-law. Since unpleasant words are said, you may often have an unpleasant expression. But don't forget to smile and respond to parents-in-law with bright words for your child and the child in your tummy. I think the best solution is to acquire such skills.

Hello.
My name is Solyana Iwa Tange Kakuko, the representative director of USO 800 Co., Ltd., which employs 800 fraudulent psychics.
Ohohoho. That's a pity.
That's a typical line we use to trick ducks in the world of cheating psychics. In other words, I finally thought you were a foolish duck, so I just started making sales talks ♡
It's so bad, but that worshiper is also a liar, but you're the one who tells the most lies! (°°) mmm
Even though the monks have been saying “he's a dangerous guy” and giving me advice, they're still involved with that guy! (°°) mmm
Everyone seriously says he's a suspicious guy, but they don't believe us, they still believe him somewhere, right?
The act of ignoring our advice yo! (°°)
The reason I say... harshly is to really wake me up. Otherwise, you'll get caught by that guy again.
It's my own ♡ yo.
Fortune tellers, psychics, and worshippers are experts at “having things.”
This is Zamas, an expert who misleads people by lying 800 things that have no basis.
Be kind at first. And they say 60% good things and 40% bad things.
The percentage changes depending on the opponent.
There are only good things for people who don't seem to get caught.
My partner (camo) trusts me while I'm just saying good things. Woohoo
And sometimes, this time they say bad things to make you feel uneasy and roll up money. woohoo baboon
The target is “naive Ama-chan.”
okay?
there's no basis, is it?
You're saying that there's no basis for this at all, right?
It's an idiot's thing to believe in unfounded things, right?
Well, it's about time to wake up and break up with each other.
Starting today, nothing suits that person at all.
Even if it becomes ping pong ♪, don't play.
You'll definitely be pushed because you have an advantage over you. It is rolled up.
That guy makes you uneasy and asks, “Well, how can I make sure my kids are safe?” I'm waiting for that one word, then I'll help you and I'll worship you, so it's ridiculous.
To put it bluntly, you're too stupid.
Let's wake up. Let's cut the edge.
There's no need to believe this at all.