About male schoolers' sexual desires

Good evening. I'm a very average male high school student living in Tokyo.
I've been going to a boys' school since middle school, and now I'm in 1st year of high school. This is my first post, but what I really want to listen to this time is about sex. I don't think so myself, probably because it's a boys' school, but people around you often tell me that you have too much sexual desire. There are a few verses that come to mind when I think back (not masculine), but I was a little surprised just because I was an average person no matter what I did, so I was definitely average when it came to sexual desire.
When I say this to my friends, it's taken as a funny story and they don't listen properly, but why does the Tokyo Metropolitan Government stipulate that stimulating sexual feelings by ordinance (Tokyo Metropolitan Ordinance on the Healthy Development of Youth) interferes with the healthy growth of youth (section 7, etc., in Chapter 3, etc., multiple). (I haven't confirmed it, but I think the same thing is probably written in every prefecture.)
I was born in an age where there was an internet connection from the time I was born, so I was able to search for as many things as I wanted. At the time, this was uploaded without permission, and I didn't even think that there were people who would be in trouble because it was reprinted here. However, as a matter of fact, at this age, it seems that they are caught by some kind of law in the first place, but if you don't buy it by regular means, when you can actually buy it, isn't the industry going to collapse in the first place? I come to think that they should buy by a regular method from both a legal point of view and an economic point of view. That's where I hit the wall I just hit. (My old self had illegally surpassed that barrier) If you read the ordinance properly, it's as if remembering sexual desire itself isn't healthy. People around you seem to be saying that they made a mistake in the way you taught. Is it really unhealthy for first-year high school students (they probably weren't aware, but I think they've had sexual desires since elementary school) to remember sexual desires? Also, when a first-year high school student at a boys' school masturbates as a means to vent that depressing sexual desire, is okazu (in short, something that cannot be obtained by regular means, such as AV or erotic books) originally unnecessary? If true, you can tell this story directly to the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Office, and it may be a little difficult for monks to do when regulations etc. are involved, but it would be helpful if you could answer them.
Sorry for the long post.

5 Zen Responses

You can't do it with or without sexual desire

Your question is, after all, “is it necessary to masturbate?”
You can decide that for yourself.
If you don't have someone decide for you one by one, can't you even masturbate?

Regulations are decided by adults, so please follow them, and if you think “this kind of ordinance is strange,” you should raise your voice in the election after you become an adult.

Having sexual desire is natural, and what is important is “not just biased.”
Don't worry about what your friends say; after all, they don't have much knowledge either.

One thing I want you to ask is that “everything you do in AV is fantasy-”
It's a big mistake if you think that women will really be happy by acting like they do in AV.

Please have a proper relationship with real women, cultivate a heart that acknowledges gender differences and a heart that respects each other, and become adults little by little.

Having sex is also a precious act.
I hope you don't lose sight of anything really important by being swayed by boring, shitty information in the streets (-people-)

A creature that has come off the tag

I read your question.
Hayashi has answered questions about masturbating, so I'm going to answer [whether it's unhealthy for a freshman year of high school to remember sexual desire].

Organisms that live in nature have almost no wasted desires. If you have the minimum food and environment necessary for survival, that's fine.
However, this is not the case with humans. Once a desire is satisfied, it takes time to fulfill the next desire. Even when it comes to reproductive function, there should be no need for such long-term fertility if it is just to leave offspring.
In the first place, humans are out of touch with their desires as living things. Even if it's out of touch, it's even more so when you're immature.
Also, in modern human society, it is extremely difficult for minors to make a living. It's not like it was until the Edo period.
It would be difficult to raise a child even if they were born at some tempo.
Based on that, I think we can see why it is regulated.
Feeling sexual desire itself is healthy as a living organism. However, I think the borderline is whether or not you can control it.

It's natural

I read it.
I see, what you worry about is everyone's worried.
It's natural for you to be bothered like that.

Sexual desire can be greater or lesser. It's not much of a difference.
So it's a matter of course.

So please don't worry too much.

Even if there are regulations from the administration, they are different from time to time due to changes in the times.

The same thing is that there is sexual desire in every era.

There's always a long way to go, so please keep up with your own sexual desires through various trials and errors.
Please try not to cause trouble to people.

It's fine, isn't it? Please take good care of yourself and those around you.

I sincerely pray that you will meet someone wonderful.

I forgive you. Nook

These kinds of values mostly come from Westernization in the Meiji period. There is no doubt that we should generally blame this guy for modern chastity cases without exception. No, seriously.

Erotic books from the Edo period are uncensored, uncensored and uncensored, and even though the face is deformed, both ♂ and ♀ are written so realistically. It's rather zooming, isn't it? I don't even feel like hiding it by 1 millimeter, it's so vivid, can I really get out of it!? I'm so sorry!!! It's a substitute called that.

The Heian aristocrats are even more strange, and parents write their experiences, how-tos, and secret techniques in detail in their diaries and let their children and grandchildren read them. What's more, ♂ vs ♂. It's an art (practice) of the imperial court that if you make a bet, you won't be betrayed in a political dispute.

That's why I think the descendants of such people can leave out anything pretentious.

Well, that being said, in the past, it was common for people to give up on ◯◯ when training themselves. They say that the more they want it, the greater it is. There was a patient belief that if you put up with it that way, you would become stronger.

However, that kind of reward-bad theory has recently been denied. I think it was probably Nishikawa Jun's “The Economics of Educational Background,” but it was clearly stated that those who set rewards for each short-term goal would produce results.

If so, stop masturbating until you study each subject for ◯ hours before the exam! Then it's highly effective, but I cut my sexual desire until I become an adult! It's going to be such an idiot story. Rather, it's a good story to say to people who are particularly nice and old, even among adults, who touch on minors and lose their social status.
Actually, it was a realistic period to cut off the original ◯◯, but... is that 1 week? Niwaka, I'm 1 month old. 1 month? why is it null. It's been 1 year for me. 1 year? you're an amateur. A certain person I respect will live a lifetime (truth or falsehood unknown)...

There is a saying “too much goes beyond,” but I would like you to keep in mind not too much and not too little in order to comply with laws and regulations.

Greed (more and more) is also affliction

In Buddhism, we believe that the root cause of worry, suffering, and stress is worry.
Everyone has worries such as greed, anger, laziness, pride, etc., but if you don't control your worries well, you will increase your own worries and suffering for others.
In particular, in the case of minors and children, their mind and body have not fully developed, they are likely to succumb to the worries of greed and become addicted like addiction, and they probably have no ability or qualification to take responsibility for themselves when they make major mistakes.
Therefore, there are age restrictions not only for sexual media, but also for alcohol, tobacco, gambling, etc.
But even if you can't drink alcohol, for example, there are other delicious drinks.
There are sexual media that are not at the 18 ban level.
Those for adults also have a lot of power to stimulate the worries of greed, so if children who can't control themselves well become addicted to it, there is a possibility that they will get addicted to it even though they have other things to do or think about.
There are so many things we need to do and can do at this time of year at this age.
Why don't you keep things that aren't too late to experience when you become an adult for later fun?
Also, some people feel that sexual depictions that are too realistic are gross.
For adults, showing sexual things to children may also be a crime of child abuse (sexual abuse).

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